"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mazda

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Hey fellows need help here I've know n this girl since maybe since elementary email her a few time but in a wussy as a wussy can be now it must of been like 2yrs now since I've emailed I'm all dj out now and need a really good drop hello email she's now a phrat and very very party goer person but the thing is I known her when she was maybe like 10yrs and the wholeparty thing isn't me but it don't bother me and I used to tease her and make fun of her when we were kids but now she is grown up and I want to email her letting her know that I'm not the person 2yrs ago that said those wussy things she probably forgot it by now anyway any help would help
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Desdinova

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well you really cant come right out and tell her that you arent the person that you used to be because it will come off as desperate and there is no direct way that you can do this she has to make up her own mind about you because its difficult to change one persons opinion of you once theyve already formed their own opinion but you could give it a shot and see what happens you never know if she could change her opinion of you so email her anyway and say whats up and then shell respond and then you can get her phone number and give her a call so you can try to set up a meet with her and then you can try using kino on her and see if she responds to it oh yeah try to use some cf on her and maybe shell want to continue dating you life is full of risks if you dont take them youll never know what the results could be so oh yeah go ahead and email her but dont expect her to change her opinion of you especially if shes known you your whole life and dont develope oneitis for this girl because thats going to get you into a real ****hole you know what i mean yeah okay

Damn, it's tough to write a run-on sentence like that.
 

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Listen up soildier in the bible there was a line that went "girdle up your loins" or in other words be a man and just email her. To say you are a dj or a true soildier you wouldnt be here asking how to email her. These women must be 6'8 full of muscles and kung fu skills the way some of us act scared of them. Be a man and ask for her number, and plan a get together.
 

mazda

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that is some good advise damn I wish I can ***** slap myself when I'm actin wussy she is only a girl she should be thrill that I said hello
 
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