"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mazda

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Hey fellows need help here I've know n this girl since maybe since elementary email her a few time but in a wussy as a wussy can be now it must of been like 2yrs now since I've emailed I'm all dj out now and need a really good drop hello email she's now a phrat and very very party goer person but the thing is I known her when she was maybe like 10yrs and the wholeparty thing isn't me but it don't bother me and I used to tease her and make fun of her when we were kids but now she is grown up and I want to email her letting her know that I'm not the person 2yrs ago that said those wussy things she probably forgot it by now anyway any help would help
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Desdinova

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well you really cant come right out and tell her that you arent the person that you used to be because it will come off as desperate and there is no direct way that you can do this she has to make up her own mind about you because its difficult to change one persons opinion of you once theyve already formed their own opinion but you could give it a shot and see what happens you never know if she could change her opinion of you so email her anyway and say whats up and then shell respond and then you can get her phone number and give her a call so you can try to set up a meet with her and then you can try using kino on her and see if she responds to it oh yeah try to use some cf on her and maybe shell want to continue dating you life is full of risks if you dont take them youll never know what the results could be so oh yeah go ahead and email her but dont expect her to change her opinion of you especially if shes known you your whole life and dont develope oneitis for this girl because thats going to get you into a real ****hole you know what i mean yeah okay

Damn, it's tough to write a run-on sentence like that.
 

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Listen up soildier in the bible there was a line that went "girdle up your loins" or in other words be a man and just email her. To say you are a dj or a true soildier you wouldnt be here asking how to email her. These women must be 6'8 full of muscles and kung fu skills the way some of us act scared of them. Be a man and ask for her number, and plan a get together.
 

mazda

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that is some good advise damn I wish I can ***** slap myself when I'm actin wussy she is only a girl she should be thrill that I said hello
 
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