"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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recently the girl who I've been crazy about for a long time had came back into my life..we lost contact for about 5-6 years but recently we found each other and caught up a few times..she even came to the prom with me when my gf could'nt come (that was like my dream came true)
I'm a changed person to what I was 5-6 years ago and I showed her that..I played cool, I was comfortable with her and I teased her etc. she totally digged it!! we had a wonderful night. and she is like the HOTTEST person ive met!! she is also very nice. at prom every single guy wanted her..and of course I want her.
She recently broke up with her boyfriend..and I really want to get her! if I'm ever goin to get here it is now!
but where should I start? there is a JT concert next week that she couldn't get tickets to..I've got 2 tickets but I'm supposed to be taking my girlfriend. the gf isn't that much of a JT fan but she is..so im thinking maybe I should invite her instead?
should I or should I not? would it be too soon? HELP ME GUYS!

S.D.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't be her emotional tampon. It sounds like you were definitely in the friends zone in the past, and though some time has gone by there's a good chance you're still there in her mind.
And once you enter that zone you pretty much never leave.
The worst thing you could do right now is talk with her about her last relationship, or spend a lot of time talking to her on the phone.
If I were you I'd make it obvious that I was not wanting to be friends. I'd either see her romantically or not see her at all, otherwise you'll just torture yourself and get strung along.
 

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Jaxon said:
If I were you I'd make it obvious that I was not wanting to be friends. I'd either see her romantically or not see her at all, otherwise you'll just torture yourself and get strung along.
how do i do that?? any examples?
 

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and dont worry mate i dont talk to her about her ex.. hahaha i couldn't give a **** about it..so no emotional tampon for me:D
 
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