"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PUA_intraing

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My first field report
July of 2005
Author: PUA-intraing
Location: Friends Apartment then onto a house party

I was at a friends house drinking and just having a good time, the friend then called some old girl friends over to have a couple of drinks and than follow us over to the house party for a keggar. After having a couple of drinks the girls showed up, we meet them outside of the apartment as they walked from there car over. Since I was the best looking of the other two guys I got IOI from both girls. I decide my target would be the pretty of the two a 8.0 with bleached blonde hair, will name her chick alpha. I lead the way up the stairs to the apartment and left the door open for them two walk in with my friends and the girls following. I ignored them as I came in a got a beer. Everybody else was chit chatting and asking basic bind info, I threw a little in but I gave chick alpha the eyebrow flash and got great eye feedback from her, after the small chit chat, we left for the party. We arrived at the party together and talked to her a little more about the hobbies we shared together, I then ignored her and just talked with my other friends and some talk with the other girls. I then lit a cigarette and chick alpha came over and by this time IOI’s we coming from ****ing every where, her body just showed it. She then remind me how much she hated cigarettes and when I heard that I just smoked it and enjoyed it like it was going to be the last one I was ever going to have. She than gave me this upset face on her face and I just smiled back (that’s a Freeze out). I asked for her number before and it was about how we will get together and play golf sometime. What I should have done was wait till she came over when I was smoking my cigarette and said you really like me don’t you and say so when are you going to ask for my number? Anyways we left the party and I didn’t say goodbye. She then called me back that night when we got back to the apartment and asked if they could come back over, I said no were going to sleep. Think about if I did say yes and I had to see her again I would then have to advance even more and if I didn’t then there would be some awkwardness. Two steps forward one step back I couldn’t have gone any further with her because of her friend there and that they wouldn’t be their that long. But know that I think about it I could have done a time distortion and take her outside and do a kiss test, but that’s what I will do next time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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