"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Old field report

PUA_intraing

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My first field report
July of 2005
Author: PUA-intraing
Location: Friends Apartment then onto a house party

I was at a friends house drinking and just having a good time, the friend then called some old girl friends over to have a couple of drinks and than follow us over to the house party for a keggar. After having a couple of drinks the girls showed up, we meet them outside of the apartment as they walked from there car over. Since I was the best looking of the other two guys I got IOI from both girls. I decide my target would be the pretty of the two a 8.0 with bleached blonde hair, will name her chick alpha. I lead the way up the stairs to the apartment and left the door open for them two walk in with my friends and the girls following. I ignored them as I came in a got a beer. Everybody else was chit chatting and asking basic bind info, I threw a little in but I gave chick alpha the eyebrow flash and got great eye feedback from her, after the small chit chat, we left for the party. We arrived at the party together and talked to her a little more about the hobbies we shared together, I then ignored her and just talked with my other friends and some talk with the other girls. I then lit a cigarette and chick alpha came over and by this time IOI’s we coming from ****ing every where, her body just showed it. She then remind me how much she hated cigarettes and when I heard that I just smoked it and enjoyed it like it was going to be the last one I was ever going to have. She than gave me this upset face on her face and I just smiled back (that’s a Freeze out). I asked for her number before and it was about how we will get together and play golf sometime. What I should have done was wait till she came over when I was smoking my cigarette and said you really like me don’t you and say so when are you going to ask for my number? Anyways we left the party and I didn’t say goodbye. She then called me back that night when we got back to the apartment and asked if they could come back over, I said no were going to sleep. Think about if I did say yes and I had to see her again I would then have to advance even more and if I didn’t then there would be some awkwardness. Two steps forward one step back I couldn’t have gone any further with her because of her friend there and that they wouldn’t be their that long. But know that I think about it I could have done a time distortion and take her outside and do a kiss test, but that’s what I will do next time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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