"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I used to work with this employee that liked to touch me. I came on this forum a while back, to ask a question. Appearently, I got her number but she didn't want a relationship. So I asked people on this forum what to do. You said just fvck her. Appearentely all she wanted was sex.

However, I waited and eventually she asked me to get together. For some reason I rejected her. Now I see her stop by every once in a while. She seems she is interested. So should I call her, even though I rejected her?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Question...On what grounds did you previously reject her? Did you want something else? Someone else?

Got that answer to that question?

If the answer was one of the above questions then are you in that position again.

I think maybe not since you are asking for advice on what to do so i am presuming that you like this chick.

Is she still touching you alot? Is she interested?
 
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I rejected her because

I just said no. I didn't really have any grounds. My grounds were I didn't want to hurt this other girls feelings, because she is the manager. Although when I rejected her I didn't say the grounds. That's the best I remember although it was a while back so that's the best I remember.

No she doesn't touch me, but she said hi the last time and played with her hair.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Grow a pair?

What does that mean? I am guessing that means grow some balls. But do you mean to grow some balls to ask her on a date? You are right, I should have told her the reason. I just kind of said no.
 
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