"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I used to work with this employee that liked to touch me. I came on this forum a while back, to ask a question. Appearently, I got her number but she didn't want a relationship. So I asked people on this forum what to do. You said just fvck her. Appearentely all she wanted was sex.

However, I waited and eventually she asked me to get together. For some reason I rejected her. Now I see her stop by every once in a while. She seems she is interested. So should I call her, even though I rejected her?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Question...On what grounds did you previously reject her? Did you want something else? Someone else?

Got that answer to that question?

If the answer was one of the above questions then are you in that position again.

I think maybe not since you are asking for advice on what to do so i am presuming that you like this chick.

Is she still touching you alot? Is she interested?
 
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I rejected her because

I just said no. I didn't really have any grounds. My grounds were I didn't want to hurt this other girls feelings, because she is the manager. Although when I rejected her I didn't say the grounds. That's the best I remember although it was a while back so that's the best I remember.

No she doesn't touch me, but she said hi the last time and played with her hair.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Grow a pair?

What does that mean? I am guessing that means grow some balls. But do you mean to grow some balls to ask her on a date? You are right, I should have told her the reason. I just kind of said no.
 
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