"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Old employee girl

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I used to work with this employee that liked to touch me. I came on this forum a while back, to ask a question. Appearently, I got her number but she didn't want a relationship. So I asked people on this forum what to do. You said just fvck her. Appearentely all she wanted was sex.

However, I waited and eventually she asked me to get together. For some reason I rejected her. Now I see her stop by every once in a while. She seems she is interested. So should I call her, even though I rejected her?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Question...On what grounds did you previously reject her? Did you want something else? Someone else?

Got that answer to that question?

If the answer was one of the above questions then are you in that position again.

I think maybe not since you are asking for advice on what to do so i am presuming that you like this chick.

Is she still touching you alot? Is she interested?
 

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I rejected her because

I just said no. I didn't really have any grounds. My grounds were I didn't want to hurt this other girls feelings, because she is the manager. Although when I rejected her I didn't say the grounds. That's the best I remember although it was a while back so that's the best I remember.

No she doesn't touch me, but she said hi the last time and played with her hair.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Grow a pair?

What does that mean? I am guessing that means grow some balls. But do you mean to grow some balls to ask her on a date? You are right, I should have told her the reason. I just kind of said no.
 
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