OLD chick is demanding.

[biggoal]

Talking to an HB 6.5 on the facebook app who's an hour away. Anyway we haven't even exchanged numbers yet but just talking on the app for 2 days now. Tonight she said I took too long to reply and said was I drinking or something. I told her I was busy doing inventory for my business and was watching the game a bit too. I have a ton of inventory to put in. She got p*ssed I don't reply fast enough. Then said being an hour away if in a relationship would I move my business up there.

Lately I'm seeing women being more entitled on OLD and overall rude if you don't reply to their liking.

Am I supposed to immediately reply on OLD? Yet, women will take days to reply when they choose.


About 4 months ago I had something similar. A lady from POF I was texting with, a nurse. It was like midnight so I told her I must go to bed because I have to work. This P*ssed her off and she went off and said she was blocking my number saying it wasn't that late at night.

Nurses seem crazy along with teachers.

Why do women act like this if you're not even in a relationship?

 

[Robert28]

Wait, you’re just now discovering women acting entitled and demanding?lol

 

[mrskinnypantz]

I had a similar experience with old
Me and this chick had sex the first night she drove 45 mins to see me then drove 45 mins back in the morning.
Then she ghosted me for weeks.
She couldn’t help it and eventually hit me back up came over that night for some more sex.
Everything was good for a while . Then..
I missed one of her text and text her back and few days later, she was mad that I didn’t respond right away,long story short she kept talking sh1t and got under my skin , so I dropped the plate ,even after I explained that I was trying not to be needy , nope . It wasn’t enough .
it’s like you’re damned if you’re beta and damned if you’re alpha ,they get tired of you either way.

why do they act like this? Only god has the answer to that
Women are crazy
If they are hot they wanna be cold if they are cold they wanna be hot
If they are warm ,”something must be wrong”

 

[MissouriMark]

A woman asked after 2 whole days if you're gonna pick up your life and move closer to her??? She sounds controlling and needy monitoring your replies back to her. And not even hot according to you. I would definitely ignore and not say another word to her. You already know enough about her personality to know it's not anyone you want to deal with. Next!!

 

[biggoal]

A woman asked after 2 whole days if you're gonna pick up your life and move closer to her??? She sounds controlling and needy monitoring your replies back to her. And not even hot according to you. I would definitely ignore and not say another word to her. You already know enough about her personality to know it's not anyone you want to deal with. Next!!

This seems to be the norm on OLD. Had another one like this a few months back. Was a medical doctor, medical examiner. I didn't see her text message for a day so I texted her back and apologized. never heard back.

 

[MissouriMark]

I've done the online dating thing off and on for 10 years, met current girlfriend that way, and I've heard and met them all. I even had the upgraded version for awhile on POF which gave me a few more features which helped with my messaging techniques. If I ever become single again, I will definitely NOT use online dating ever. Either meet someone through a mutual contact or approach women on my own.

Like other people have said, women on online dating sites act like their God's gift to men, where if they were out in public, you probably wouldn't even notice them cuz they're average to below average in looks. But online, you have men tripping over themselves to meet women they would never normally want to in person so it inflates their egos.

I've done online dating enough to know it's better to meet women out in the real world instead regardless if I had decent success on there.

 

[biggoal]

I've done the online dating thing off and on for 10 years, met current girlfriend that way, and I've heard and met them all. I even had the upgraded version for awhile on POF which gave me a few more features which helped with my messaging techniques. If I ever become single again, I will definitely NOT use online dating ever. Either meet someone through a mutual contact or approach women on my own.

Like other people have said, women on online dating sites act like their God's gift to men, where if they were out in public, you probably wouldn't even notice them cuz they're average to below average in looks. But online, you have men tripping over themselves to meet women they would never normally want to in person so it inflates their egos.

I've done online dating enough to know it's better to meet women out in the real world instead regardless if I had decent success on there.

Not all below average. Even in this horrible area for OLD I'd still say maybe 10 percent are still above average looking.

Every once in awhile you will see a real profile that's an HB 8.5-9.

However these above average women on OLD usually have a screw loose! Despite being hot they have to resort to OLD due to their terrible personality. HB8 plus doesn't need OLD.

I had an HB9 date from OLD once. VERY hot in person but her attitude and personality was HB1. One of the most arrogant and rude women I've ever met. I can see why she told me she divorced after a year because she said "her husband was tired of marriage." No, he was tired of YOU!

 

[MissouriMark]

The worst feeling with meeting a woman online is the buildup to the date where you think there's going to be attraction in person, but the moment you meet up with them, there's nothing. I still of course would go through with the date cuz I'm not a douche, but will keep it short and platonic. That's why I like to meet women soon after initial contact online so I'm not wasting time with a bunch of messaging just to meet in person and immediately know there's nothing there.

I go on every date not obviously to expect to meet my soulmate, but I at least have some optimism that it could lead to something otherwise I wouldn't even go on the date. And a lot of women message differently than they interact in person which could be for many reasons, nerves, etc. That's why it's good not to be strung along too long online with a woman since there may be no attraction once you meet in person.

 

[biggoal]

The worst feeling with meeting a woman online is the buildup to the date where you think there's going to be attraction in person, but the moment you meet up with them, there's nothing. I still of course would go through with the date cuz I'm not a douche, but will keep it short and platonic. That's why I like to meet women soon after initial contact online so I'm not wasting time with a bunch of messaging just to meet in person and immediately know there's nothing there.

I go on every date not obviously to expect to meet my soulmate, but I at least have some optimism that it could lead to something otherwise I wouldn't even go on the date. And a lot of women message differently than they interact in person which could be for many reasons, nerves, etc. That's why it's good not to be strung along too long online with a woman since there may be no attraction once you meet in person.

The thing with me is most of the decent women online are at least 30 miles from me! or even 60 miles away so it's hard to just get up and meetup if they're up near Tampa. My county you might see occasional land whale or tatted lady.

You live in St. Louis, right? I'm from there and everyone is within 25 miles or so. VEry easy. Not fair everything is a long drive where the young people are.

 

[Willie Naylor]

@biggoal just move on from this girl.

You're more interested in acquiring facts about online dating than actually improving yourself.

 

[MissouriMark]

I live in St Charles and usually stay in that county and don't like going into St Louis County or city if I don't have to.

I used to be a delivery driver and would use online dating to find women in outlying areas if I was already going there for my job and so it would like 2 birds with 1 stone.

Meeting women through mutual contacts I think is the best way cuz someone has already vouched for you and has hopefully talked you up good. And you would know more about the woman's situation then approaching cold or even online where people obviously lie and catfish.

 

[biggoal]

I live in St Charles and usually stay in that county and don't like going into St Louis County or city if I don't have to.

I used to be a delivery driver and would use online dating to find women in outlying areas if I was already going there for my job and so it would like 2 birds with 1 stone.

Meeting women through mutual contacts I think is the best way cuz someone has already vouched for you and has hopefully talked you up good. And you would know more about the woman's situation then approaching cold or even online where people obviously lie and catfish.

I drove about 55 miles for an OLD date once. She used 7 year old pics and was about 30lbs heavier. Now I vette them with my methods I posted before so they're not heavier. If I see they're different on facebook I cut them off.

 

[MissouriMark]

Yeah there's nothing wrong with making sure the woman is of your standards before meeting up with them. It's like what does the woman expect to happen? You meet up with her and she looks totally different than her pictures and you're just gonna roll with it???

There's no point in misrepresenting yourself online. If they're embarrassed of how they look, they shouldn't even be on a dating site, but I guess they figure they'll always be a guy ready to bang her no matter what.

 

[twelveightyone]

Talking to an HB 6.5 on the facebook app who's an hour away.

You lost me at "an hour away". I did this for a few dates and it's a lot of driving just to get laid.. I suggest changing your settings so that you get some closer to you.

 

[Willie Naylor]

You lost me at "an hour away". I did this for a few dates and it's a lot of driving just to get laid.. I suggest changing your settings so that you get some closer to you.

Don't get him started again.

 

[BDDazza]

Talking to an HB 6.5 on the facebook app who's an hour away. Anyway we haven't even exchanged numbers yet but just talking on the app for 2 days now. Tonight she said I took too long to reply and said was I drinking or something. I told her I was busy doing inventory for my business and was watching the game a bit too. I have a ton of inventory to put in. She got p*ssed I don't reply fast enough. Then said being an hour away if in a relationship would I move my business up there.

Lately I'm seeing women being more entitled on OLD and overall rude if you don't reply to their liking.

Am I supposed to immediately reply on OLD? Yet, women will take days to reply when they choose.


About 4 months ago I had something similar. A lady from POF I was texting with, a nurse. It was like midnight so I told her I must go to bed because I have to work. This P*ssed her off and she went off and said she was blocking my number saying it wasn't that late at night.

Nurses seem crazy along with teachers.

Why do women act like this if you're not even in a relationship?

This woman has so many men in her Facebook inbox whom reply to her messages immediately, now she is self-entitled and not used to men not responding straight away. You've only known her two days and she is very demanding, imagine what she is going to be like if you actually meet!

 

[biggoal]

This woman has so many men in her Facebook inbox whom reply to her messages immediately, now she is self-entitled and not used to men not responding straight away. You've only known her two days and she is very demanding, imagine what she is going to be like if you actually meet!

The advice on there though is to not reply constantly and right away and don't overtext. It's like the opposite advice you'd hear on forums with women like LS.

This was the FB dating app I was talking to her on actually.

It's not the first time I've had girls like this. On POF over the summer was talking to an HB6.5 chick via texting. It was like 12am and I nicely told her I'm going to bed because I have work in the morning and I'd text more tomorrow night. That set her off. She said it was too early at night still and that I can't go to bed yet. She then blocked my number.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Agree and amplify. Laugh silly stuff off.

Why do you even take this stuff seriously?

 

[MissouriMark]

I'm all for sharing poor experiences we've had with women, but I'm having a tough time believing this. I call bu11sh1t.

Sorry buddy, but either this didn't actually happen, or there's a bunch of context and nuance you aren't providing us.

Yeah that chick sounded needy and fukked in the head.

 

[Dash Riprock]

I've had many women get mad because I "didn't text her back fast enough." Pertains to women I've dated in the their 20s, 30s, 40s. Hey, I have a busy life outside of dating and women are hardly my focal point in life. They're like #14 (and that might be high) on my list right now.

I think 1) they're so used to over-thirsty guys texting them back asap that if you don't, it's a huge ding to their ego, even if they liked you and 2) men, dating, and relationships are far and away #1 on most women's list of priorities so the want a man (simp) whose sole purpose in life is to find a LTR or get married--and I know guys like this.