"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Old Caulk: Caulk Over It, Or Remove It?

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BOB: Hi I'm Bob Vila. Welcome to another edition of This Old House. In this show, we'll be talking about ways you can protect your home. So stick around.

ANNOUNCER: This Old House is brought to you by a grant from the Natural Endowment for the Humanities.

BOB: The subject of this week's show is old caulk. That can be a lot of trouble. With us is master carpenter Norm Abram.

NORM: Hi Bob.

BOB: Norm, how much of a problem is old caulk?

NORM: It's a big problem, Bob. You don't want to ignore it. If you leave old caulk in the home, she's wide open to all kinds of intrusion. Old caulk is going to pull away from her sides. You can see how the relationship between old caulk and the drywall spoils. It just crumbles away.

BOB: Yeah, that's pretty ugly.

NORM: When old caulk peels away, it leaves her vulnerable to penetration from moisture, microbes, foreign objects, and pests. The home will just rot away.

BOB: So can we just caulk over the old caulk?

NORM: I wouldn't do it. If you ignore the old caulk, and try to apply your goo around it, the old caulk is going to always be there causing problems. Nobody wants that.

BOB: No, I sure don't. What else could go wrong?

NORM: Well, as soon as you start caulking, while the old caulk is still there, you've sealed it in. The old caulk no longer serves any purpose, but it's comfortable lying around. If you did that, it would be practically impossible to remove old caulk without removing the new caulk at the same time.

BOB: That would be counterproductive.

NORM: I'll say. What's needed is to pull the old caulk out and clean up the house. Get the old caulk out before you start your new caulking job.

BOB: Sure. I like to use my handy scraper to just dig in and get that old rotten stuff out.

NORM: The right tool for the job, Bob.

BOB: Right. Give him a good tooling and get him out. Clean up your surfaces. Never rush though it. Good preparation gets you ready to do a good job. Then lay in a fresh bead of high quality, new caulk.

NORM: That's how I do it.

BOB: Thanks Norm. And thank you for joining us . . . on This Old House.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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