"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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After months I returned back to Okupid, what surprising is that women no loger shy from show their interest in food (restaurants ) and travel. and many hungry singles moms wiring things like "food is a must" , "first date should be on restaurant","I am looking for new trip" .
I never seen such attitude even in POF... well I havent visit POF since one year so not sure what they are now .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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evan12 said:
After months I returned back to Okupid, what surprising is that women no loger shy from show their interest in food (restaurants ) and travel. and many hungry singles moms wiring things like "food is a must" , "first date should be on restaurant","I am looking for new trip" .
I never seen such attitude even in POF... well I havent visit POF since one year so not sure what they are now .
Yup that's how it goes typically when a chick has those type of requests it means some other guys are banging her.

I have a rule if a chick is below a 6.5 I don't take them on dates she can come straight to the house for some cawk N Balls

Also I think Zarky is right if you don't bang a chick on the first date don't bother, internet women are sluts and should be treated as such
 

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I don't know. I think dinner is a good date, I have a huge % 1st date lays with dinner. I don't buy the PUA nonsense. Then again, I can afford to take girls out to dinner, if you can't, then just do drinks. Who cares what girls say about blah blah being a must, if they contact you etc. they are interested.
 

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Women have no idea what they want. So they type what most other women type.

If you see a woman you're interested in, even (or even especially if what she's looking for isn't 'you') chat her up and ask her out.
 

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you do know that there are women online who go online just to 'get things' dont you? a free meal? a holiday? sometimes without any intention of getting it on with the guy
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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you do know that there are women online who go online just to 'get things' dont you? a free meal? a holiday? sometimes without any intention of getting it on with the guy
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About the same number you meet in bars.
 

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Tictac said:
you do know that there are women online who go online just to 'get things' dont you? a free meal? a holiday? sometimes without any intention of getting it on with the guy
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About the same number you meet in bars.
About the same number you meet anywhere?
 

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Tictac said:
you do know that there are women online who go online just to 'get things' dont you? a free meal? a holiday? sometimes without any intention of getting it on with the guy
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About the same number you meet in bars.
ive never met a woman in a bar who made a pre requesite demand that I provide a meal, a dress or a holiday
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lol leave tictac alone, guy is 62 he gets a pass, just because of that.

Online dating sucks but if you must

Tictac said:
If you're under 40, you have few excuses to be on any dating site. I have kids, own/run a business with employees in 3 countries.

Bars are for kids and I don't date children, I date women.

I meet lots of women in my work and in my travels. Try sustaining a relationship with the hot lawyer you just closed a deal with in Tortola or the flight attendant you hung out with for three days in Shanghai.

When I'm home, what am I supposed to do? Hang out at the supermarket or the mall?

Online is not perfect, neither is life.

Online, real life - what's the difference?

They're women. They are for your amusement.

Most guys who use online datinghere though are 40 or younger.

I'm 29 tried online dating and it sucks ass, I'm working my a$$ of right now to get in shape

It's simple

I see too many goregous women In real life to "settle" for online dating at 29
 

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If you're under 40, you have few excuses to be on any dating site. I have kids, own/run a business with employees in 3 countries.

Bars are for kids and I don't date children, I date women.

I meet lots of women in my work and in my travels. Try sustaining a relationship with the hot lawyer you just closed a deal with in Tortola or the flight attendant you hung out with for three days in Shanghai.

When I'm home, what am I supposed to do? Hang out at the supermarket or the mall?

Online is not perfect, neither is life.

Online, real life - what's the difference?

They're women. They are for your amusement.
 

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yes this is online and in real life cause male desperation is at an all time high iso that even older less attractive females now have more than enough men to F and are now in a position to demand gifts and meals from men iin return for attention...lol now is the best time in history to be females and worst time to be any man who is not in the top 5% of looks and or wealth
 

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Tictac said:
And I've never met one of those online.
well if you go back to the OPs post " many hungry singles moms wiring things like "food is a must" , "first date should be on restaurant","I am looking for new trip" . "
you will clearly see that the pre requesties are there, or are you just being an antagonostic fvck?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tictac said:
And I've never met one of those online.
the girl I am texting now put in her profile that she want to fill her passport with stamps (dont worry I will not take her to any place ) .
it seem there are fast dramatic changes in dating life , I cant believe in one year all this change happened. before at worst she would state"I like to travels and discovering new things " , but now it is direct statements with clear intentions
 

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Using a computer to get women is beta. And you're going to be only 1 of 100 messages they get every day. So they probably won't even open it.
 

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Using a computer to get women is beta. And you're going to be only 1 of 100 messages they get every day. So they probably won't even open it.
It is not ideal way to get a date , but I usually get many dates and phone numbers from online dating. It is not that bad if you don't take it seriously
 

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evan12 said:
After months I returned back to Okupid, what surprising is that women no loger shy from show their interest in food (restaurants ) and travel. and many hungry singles moms wiring things like "food is a must" , "first date should be on restaurant","I am looking for new trip" .
I never seen such attitude even in POF... well I havent visit POF since one year so not sure what they are now .


This sense of entitlement from most of these cvnts comes from the fact that men have stopped being men and they grovel like dogs before these females. With me a chick has got to get her act together and not ask me to do shyt for her. It's amazing how much these trashy chicks see themselves as queens when they're not worth a dime. For a chick to make demands on her dating profile then she better be an HB 9 or 10. If she's an average looking chick or a single mother then she can just fvck off. Let some beta loser have her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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