"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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After months I returned back to Okupid, what surprising is that women no loger shy from show their interest in food (restaurants ) and travel. and many hungry singles moms wiring things like "food is a must" , "first date should be on restaurant","I am looking for new trip" .
I never seen such attitude even in POF... well I havent visit POF since one year so not sure what they are now .
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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evan12 said:
After months I returned back to Okupid, what surprising is that women no loger shy from show their interest in food (restaurants ) and travel. and many hungry singles moms wiring things like "food is a must" , "first date should be on restaurant","I am looking for new trip" .
I never seen such attitude even in POF... well I havent visit POF since one year so not sure what they are now .
Yup that's how it goes typically when a chick has those type of requests it means some other guys are banging her.

I have a rule if a chick is below a 6.5 I don't take them on dates she can come straight to the house for some cawk N Balls

Also I think Zarky is right if you don't bang a chick on the first date don't bother, internet women are sluts and should be treated as such
 

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I don't know. I think dinner is a good date, I have a huge % 1st date lays with dinner. I don't buy the PUA nonsense. Then again, I can afford to take girls out to dinner, if you can't, then just do drinks. Who cares what girls say about blah blah being a must, if they contact you etc. they are interested.
 

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Women have no idea what they want. So they type what most other women type.

If you see a woman you're interested in, even (or even especially if what she's looking for isn't 'you') chat her up and ask her out.
 

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you do know that there are women online who go online just to 'get things' dont you? a free meal? a holiday? sometimes without any intention of getting it on with the guy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you do know that there are women online who go online just to 'get things' dont you? a free meal? a holiday? sometimes without any intention of getting it on with the guy
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About the same number you meet in bars.
 

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Tictac said:
you do know that there are women online who go online just to 'get things' dont you? a free meal? a holiday? sometimes without any intention of getting it on with the guy
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About the same number you meet in bars.
About the same number you meet anywhere?
 

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Tictac said:
you do know that there are women online who go online just to 'get things' dont you? a free meal? a holiday? sometimes without any intention of getting it on with the guy
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About the same number you meet in bars.
ive never met a woman in a bar who made a pre requesite demand that I provide a meal, a dress or a holiday
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lol leave tictac alone, guy is 62 he gets a pass, just because of that.

Online dating sucks but if you must

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If you're under 40, you have few excuses to be on any dating site. I have kids, own/run a business with employees in 3 countries.

Bars are for kids and I don't date children, I date women.

I meet lots of women in my work and in my travels. Try sustaining a relationship with the hot lawyer you just closed a deal with in Tortola or the flight attendant you hung out with for three days in Shanghai.

When I'm home, what am I supposed to do? Hang out at the supermarket or the mall?

Online is not perfect, neither is life.

Online, real life - what's the difference?

They're women. They are for your amusement.

Most guys who use online datinghere though are 40 or younger.

I'm 29 tried online dating and it sucks ass, I'm working my a$$ of right now to get in shape

It's simple

I see too many goregous women In real life to "settle" for online dating at 29
 

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If you're under 40, you have few excuses to be on any dating site. I have kids, own/run a business with employees in 3 countries.

Bars are for kids and I don't date children, I date women.

I meet lots of women in my work and in my travels. Try sustaining a relationship with the hot lawyer you just closed a deal with in Tortola or the flight attendant you hung out with for three days in Shanghai.

When I'm home, what am I supposed to do? Hang out at the supermarket or the mall?

Online is not perfect, neither is life.

Online, real life - what's the difference?

They're women. They are for your amusement.
 

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yes this is online and in real life cause male desperation is at an all time high iso that even older less attractive females now have more than enough men to F and are now in a position to demand gifts and meals from men iin return for attention...lol now is the best time in history to be females and worst time to be any man who is not in the top 5% of looks and or wealth
 

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Tictac said:
And I've never met one of those online.
well if you go back to the OPs post " many hungry singles moms wiring things like "food is a must" , "first date should be on restaurant","I am looking for new trip" . "
you will clearly see that the pre requesties are there, or are you just being an antagonostic fvck?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tictac said:
And I've never met one of those online.
the girl I am texting now put in her profile that she want to fill her passport with stamps (dont worry I will not take her to any place ) .
it seem there are fast dramatic changes in dating life , I cant believe in one year all this change happened. before at worst she would state"I like to travels and discovering new things " , but now it is direct statements with clear intentions
 

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Using a computer to get women is beta. And you're going to be only 1 of 100 messages they get every day. So they probably won't even open it.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Using a computer to get women is beta. And you're going to be only 1 of 100 messages they get every day. So they probably won't even open it.
It is not ideal way to get a date , but I usually get many dates and phone numbers from online dating. It is not that bad if you don't take it seriously
 

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evan12 said:
After months I returned back to Okupid, what surprising is that women no loger shy from show their interest in food (restaurants ) and travel. and many hungry singles moms wiring things like "food is a must" , "first date should be on restaurant","I am looking for new trip" .
I never seen such attitude even in POF... well I havent visit POF since one year so not sure what they are now .


This sense of entitlement from most of these cvnts comes from the fact that men have stopped being men and they grovel like dogs before these females. With me a chick has got to get her act together and not ask me to do shyt for her. It's amazing how much these trashy chicks see themselves as queens when they're not worth a dime. For a chick to make demands on her dating profile then she better be an HB 9 or 10. If she's an average looking chick or a single mother then she can just fvck off. Let some beta loser have her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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