"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DangNammit

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I been getting the itch to meet some new gals after 3 mos of going solo... I have pretty limited time available to go out and meet (tho I do try a bit when i can).

So... I joined up on OkCupid... 5hit. Im going back solo. Is this 5hit for real?! Fat and/or insane... Have any of you seen this trainwreck site?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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squirrels

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Fat girls, single mommies, and nuts.

Basically what you used to see in the singles ads in the paper.

PoF, OKC, they're all relatively the same.

When MySpace and FaceBook first opened up, you could actually meet some cool girls on there. Now those sites are "mainstreamed"...FB is all about being up your buddies' arses 24/7 and MySpace is just spam from porn bots. The "specialized" dating sites...mostly suck. Too many toads to sort through to find the princesses.

You're probably better off just hitting the clubs. :p Or learning "day game", or meeting friends of friends.
 
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OKC isnt that bad...depends on your region. But comparing dating sites is kind of like comparing Creed and Nickelback.
 
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DJ SO STEVE

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It's always best to keep your doors open and that includes dates sites. I've met a hand full of women and got laid many times from women I met online. Why close any doors, opportunities are endless!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Like with single moms, online dating is just good for ONSs, or FBs if they develop.

I have a profile online that I check like once a week. If a woman really, and I mean REALLY likes your looks, she will contact you. And then you have the upper hand because you know that she's interested enough to make the first move.

I've gotten a few quick lays from online dating but one should not rely too much on it. You just have to leave a profile as bait and wait for the fishies to bite... ;)
 
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Here's something I learned quickly with ONLINE DATNG sites

A lot of women that go on there, either something is wrong i.e. too big, weird, stuck up, stubborn, very sarcastic. But a lot of women I truly believe online are just looking to fucc, yeah they want a relationship with the guy who doesn't exist( i.e. six pack, tall dark and handsome, drives an Iroc, looks like Brad Pitt, wants to get married in less then a year), and if he does why the hell would he need to go on an online dating site?
 
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