"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DangNammit

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I been getting the itch to meet some new gals after 3 mos of going solo... I have pretty limited time available to go out and meet (tho I do try a bit when i can).

So... I joined up on OkCupid... 5hit. Im going back solo. Is this 5hit for real?! Fat and/or insane... Have any of you seen this trainwreck site?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fat girls, single mommies, and nuts.

Basically what you used to see in the singles ads in the paper.

PoF, OKC, they're all relatively the same.

When MySpace and FaceBook first opened up, you could actually meet some cool girls on there. Now those sites are "mainstreamed"...FB is all about being up your buddies' arses 24/7 and MySpace is just spam from porn bots. The "specialized" dating sites...mostly suck. Too many toads to sort through to find the princesses.

You're probably better off just hitting the clubs. :p Or learning "day game", or meeting friends of friends.
 
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OKC isnt that bad...depends on your region. But comparing dating sites is kind of like comparing Creed and Nickelback.
 
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It's always best to keep your doors open and that includes dates sites. I've met a hand full of women and got laid many times from women I met online. Why close any doors, opportunities are endless!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Like with single moms, online dating is just good for ONSs, or FBs if they develop.

I have a profile online that I check like once a week. If a woman really, and I mean REALLY likes your looks, she will contact you. And then you have the upper hand because you know that she's interested enough to make the first move.

I've gotten a few quick lays from online dating but one should not rely too much on it. You just have to leave a profile as bait and wait for the fishies to bite... ;)
 
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Here's something I learned quickly with ONLINE DATNG sites

A lot of women that go on there, either something is wrong i.e. too big, weird, stuck up, stubborn, very sarcastic. But a lot of women I truly believe online are just looking to fucc, yeah they want a relationship with the guy who doesn't exist( i.e. six pack, tall dark and handsome, drives an Iroc, looks like Brad Pitt, wants to get married in less then a year), and if he does why the hell would he need to go on an online dating site?
 
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