"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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okay to date a woman you don't think you can marry?

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I'm dating this girl that I like a lot, but we have our problems and it makes me think I don't want to marry her. I know I'll probably get responses like "just break up with her", but I haven't made a final decision and I still have fun with her. On the other hand sometimes I feel like she thinks this relationship is going to lead into marriage. Any thoughts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You have issues that would keep you from marrying her but you'd still date her? Well, I guess if you're willing to put up with it while dating her why not (if you don't think it's a waste of your time).
 

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How long have you been dating her? Sometimes it takes months to see things another way. Don't worry about what she thinks. This is about you. If you are happy, stay that way until you're unhappy; simple as that.
 
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yeah. we've been dating for about a year and a half. things are mostly good, but we do argue a lot. I stand up for myself, but sometimes it is impossible to reason with her sometimes. I like her as a person and she has similar interests and somewhat similar goals. I am 22 y/o and am not ready to get married because I don't know how to qualify a girl for something that seems so permanent. I am not ready to get married now, but I don't know when I should start preparing for it as I think it would be good one day, when I feel it is right (not at the moment).
 

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You are obviously not ready nor willing to get married right now, So don't sweat it. Keep seeing her and see where things go.

Oh and when you fight with a woman, you CAN'T reason with them. So stop that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"Oh and when you fight with a woman, you CAN'T reason with them. So stop that."

actually I could reason with my last girlfriend believe it or not. she was an advanced placement student though. lol.
 

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rrrr, You broke up with the one woman that can have a logical thought out arguement??

You should've done your job as a man and help perserve those rare genes she has. It could affect human evolution!
 
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man. the reason I can't see myself with this girl is because she doesn't know how to deal with her problems. something bad happens to her and she turns into a ball of negative energy. I try...I make an attempt to be a positive person...all the time. I try to help her out and she responds with negativity: saying stuff like "that 'just be happy' stuff may work for you but not for me"...I care about her, but I have the feeling that one of these days, I won't be able to bear her burden anymore.
 

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cloneofstenyhoyer said:
I'm dating this girl that I like a lot, but we have our problems and it makes me think I don't want to marry her. I know I'll probably get responses like "just break up with her", but I haven't made a final decision and I still have fun with her. On the other hand sometimes I feel like she thinks this relationship is going to lead into marriage. Any thoughts?
would you test drive a porsche, even though you know you're more of a Lexus man?

hell yes!!!
 
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