"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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BringUrGreenHat

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Well first off, I am a heartless bastard, most of the time. I have a friend, and shes been one of my best friends for many many years and I really value her friendship. Well, the other night I think I really embarressed her. Her two persian friends were over. (I had no idea they were) and she was like you coming over tonight with Brian, the persian girls are gona be here. I asked which ones? she said the ones i dont like, and so I said maybe but who gives a **** about them anyway. Well of course they had to be right there... So my friend says ummm there def right here. and im like well lifes a ***** and then ya die. (basically meaning get over it)... but her friends were really hurt, and this i could careless about... but it also upset her and made her feel extremely embarressed of me. And that makes me feel awful.

PS: I am an evil bastard who usually never feels any remorse. Yet How do I fix the situation with my friend, because I do care about her. And i really dont want to say sorry to them, but i might have to... Damn it, why couldnt she have told me they were there!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by BringUrGreenHat
Damn it, why couldnt she have told me they were there!
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Would that have changed your opinion? The truth's out, don't fear it. If anything, ask her to forgive you for starting off their night like that.
 
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Apologize.
 
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DJoneday

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You kind of sound like one of those hot topic kids who's trying to rebel against society

"PS: I am an evil bastard who usually never feels any remorse."

What's the point in that?
 
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BringUrGreenHat

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well actually, no. I guess you could say im more like a tucker max. Im pretty normal except that i can be a complete ass sometimes, but i dont care. Except, I'm really loyal to my friends, and I didnt mean to do that to her. Either way, its done now, no reason to apologize when it'd be a lie. Thats another thing that pisses me off, emo kids drive me crazy. Their depressed 24/7! someone should get them drunk and laid.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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