"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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okay, i have a rant

backbreaker

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ever be with a group of guys, and you see a woman. A nice looking woman and you think she looks a certain way, and they disagree, and not only disagree, they chastise your future and past taste in women, becuase they are the know all and be all when it comes to judging women?

I was with this guy, and this woman comes walking in.. cute, but nothing about her just stands out to me... plus I like petite women, and while she isn't big by any means, she isn't petite. But very very doable. A solid 7. Above average but I have seen much much better.

So this guy says "dude, cute! she is smokin hot!.. she is at least a 8 or a 9"

then

"how can you call her a 7, what do you call the girl you ****ed 4 months ago if you call a 7?"

I just left him alone.

first of all, does it really matter.. it's my freakin opinion. Dude, people act like a 7 is bad. I give my ex Fiancee a 7 and a half.

Secondly, the girl that threw herself at me and begged me to suck me off... and the same girl you were giving me props from (not that I cared) 3 months ago?

Lastly, all of this comnig from a guy who currently has a woman who is married living with him, who hasn't filed for divorce yet.. is non employeed and wants a night job so he can babysit her child while she is at work (my bet is she is getting tagged by her hubby while he is at work) and last but not least, got his ass whipped to the point where I saw him last friday with a broken hand, ****ed up leg and a busted eye from getting in a fight with him last week....yeah man. Question my taste in women.

NOt that I care, my tastes are my tastes. But why do guys do that? When you disagree with how someone looks, you jump all over them like you are that much better than they are.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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THE_ADDMAN

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its called "Pride"

its what holds guys back from realizing their true potential
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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THE_ADDMAN said:
its called "Pride"

its what holds guys back from realizing their true potential
"You may feel a slight sting.....That's just pride f^ckin' with you..."
-Marcelus Wallace

True words Addman.
 

SELF-MASTERY

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Pride is also related to shame.

I think that shame is what truly prevents man from reaching his potential.
 
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