"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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okay, i have a rant

backbreaker

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ever be with a group of guys, and you see a woman. A nice looking woman and you think she looks a certain way, and they disagree, and not only disagree, they chastise your future and past taste in women, becuase they are the know all and be all when it comes to judging women?

I was with this guy, and this woman comes walking in.. cute, but nothing about her just stands out to me... plus I like petite women, and while she isn't big by any means, she isn't petite. But very very doable. A solid 7. Above average but I have seen much much better.

So this guy says "dude, cute! she is smokin hot!.. she is at least a 8 or a 9"

then

"how can you call her a 7, what do you call the girl you ****ed 4 months ago if you call a 7?"

I just left him alone.

first of all, does it really matter.. it's my freakin opinion. Dude, people act like a 7 is bad. I give my ex Fiancee a 7 and a half.

Secondly, the girl that threw herself at me and begged me to suck me off... and the same girl you were giving me props from (not that I cared) 3 months ago?

Lastly, all of this comnig from a guy who currently has a woman who is married living with him, who hasn't filed for divorce yet.. is non employeed and wants a night job so he can babysit her child while she is at work (my bet is she is getting tagged by her hubby while he is at work) and last but not least, got his ass whipped to the point where I saw him last friday with a broken hand, ****ed up leg and a busted eye from getting in a fight with him last week....yeah man. Question my taste in women.

NOt that I care, my tastes are my tastes. But why do guys do that? When you disagree with how someone looks, you jump all over them like you are that much better than they are.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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THE_ADDMAN

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its called "Pride"

its what holds guys back from realizing their true potential
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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THE_ADDMAN said:
its called "Pride"

its what holds guys back from realizing their true potential
"You may feel a slight sting.....That's just pride f^ckin' with you..."
-Marcelus Wallace

True words Addman.
 

SELF-MASTERY

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Pride is also related to shame.

I think that shame is what truly prevents man from reaching his potential.
 
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