"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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okay, hypothethical situation

backbreaker

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was with some friends and this chump was telling me about his issues he is having with his GF (what is it about me that guys just start splatting about womena bout i dont' know but they do)

anyway, guy was on the phone with his GF....

they have been dating for 2 months now.

he hears the dog barking in the backrground


she says i need to call you back. this was at like 7pm

she never calls back that night






how do you handle this situation?

what do you do..


what.do....you.do
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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zekko

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he hears the dog barking in the backrground

she says i need to call you back. this was at like 7pm
she never calls back that night
Tough one. I don't think I would next her over just this. I would definitely mark it down as a red flag though, maybe a strike one.
However: The fact that he was already complaining about "issues" with her after only two months makes me thinks she isn't worth the time.

I guess the implication with the dog barking is that someone came to her house and she never got back with him. Some other dude perhaps? A family member? Or maybe she was murdered.

I would just ask her why she never got back with me and give her a chance to explain. If her explanation wasn't good enough, then there's another red flag.
I'm sure some guys here would say pretend not to notice that she didn't call back (It will make you look insecure! Horrors!), but I'd rather call her on it.
 

Ease

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Sounds like your friends need a hug.

Feminity like this is too common here. In less ruined cultures men act like men and know not to cry and lose sleep if their girl doesnt fone.

zekko said:
Tough one. I don't think I would next her over just this. I would definitely mark it down as a red flag though, maybe a strike one.
However: The fact that he was already complaining about "issues" with her after only two months makes me thinks she isn't worth the time.

I guess the implication with the dog barking is that someone came to her house and she never got back with him. Some other dude perhaps? A family member? Or maybe she was murdered.

I would just ask her why she never got back with me and give her a chance to explain. If her explanation wasn't good enough, then there's another red flag.
I'm sure some guys here would say pretend not to notice that she didn't call back (It will make you look insecure! Horrors!), but I'd rather call her on it.
You're right the dog in the background could have belonged to one of the men that came to gangbang his girlfriend in her living room. He should have went over immediately and installed CCTV around her house.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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