"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OK, ya know what....LOOKS DO NOT DETERMINE DIFFICULTY OF A WOMAN....

Craig Reeves

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Yes, I'm very exhasuted and tired, but I just had to write about this because it seems to be a principle on this site the the more beautfiul a woman is, the harder she is to pick up.

I don't get this at all. What does a woman's looks have to do with who she's attracted to? Does a woman really take a look in the mirror and say, "Hey, I'm going to turn my attraction off for "this guy" because he's not making enough money for me because I'm a HB10 and I'm too good looking for his ass.

Now sure, she may "prefer" dating a better looking guy "because she wants a guy that looks as good as her" in the relationship. But she's just running her mouth. Once you start creating attraction in her, she'll forget about what she "prefers" and follow her attraction.

Just because hot women SAY they want an "athletic guy" doesn't mean that that is all they are going to be attracted to. This is just what they have been recently attracted to.

The difficulty of a woman is not based off of her looks, but the woman her self. I have met some extremely difficult to pick up 7's and 8's, and even 6's. Now don't get me wrong, I've met tough 10's.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hey - maybe you can come up with a 'degree of difficulty' modifier like in diving :)
 
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