"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ok wtf I feel used

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So I was fvcking this girl last night and she said I was the best person in bed she's ever been with, which is surprising because she's slept with some really popular people. Well, somewhere around there she screamed out "OMG I found my new **** buddy!" and then I just stopped. I was like "What's that suppose to mean?" She's like "Please don't stop," and I took it out of her and demanded an answer. Then she told me "I'm sorry, just that I've never had sex like this before." And then we continued.

I was thinking about it again today, I'm not sure if she meant to compliment me or if she really just wants me as her fvck buddy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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she was trying to compliment you by sounding cool, instead of saying something corny like "omg i love you and want to have your babies one day."
 

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Poor you, poor you. Tell her you first want to get to know her a lot better before you guys have sex again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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penkitten said:
she was trying to compliment you by sounding cool, instead of saying something corny like "omg i love you and want to have your babies one day."
Yeah, that sounds right, I just wasn't sure of an answer. I know she likes me, I just never had anyone say that to me while we're doing it.
 

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War Against Betaism said:
Says the person with the name Stephane.
I'm guessing you don't know the difference between a french, and english name. Grow a brain too while your at it.
 

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penkitten is right. Why did you overreact so much? Are you trying to find true love by dating hors?
 

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Stéphane said:
I'm guessing you don't know the difference between a french, and english name. Grow a brain too while your at it.
The irony of it all.
 

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Obsidian said:
penkitten is right. Why did you overreact so much? Are you trying to find true love by dating hors?
I wouldn't really say she's a *****, at least not as much of a ***** as other girls I've slept with. I guess I over analyzed the situation a bit too much, I do have a tendency to do that, a part of my game and personality I need to work on :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I was fvcking this girl last night and she said I was the best person in bed she's ever been with....he screamed out "OMG I found my new **** buddy!"


nah, she's not a hor at all...
 

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Oh well.

Big deal.

If she really just wants you for a fvck buddy and not a relationship it sounds like a good deal for you.

Meanwhile you can game other chicks and still get your rocks off with this one.

Its a win win.
 

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if you were looking for a relationship with this women and she said that - i could understand your concern. but even then - many women who start out as f@ck buddies end up wanting to take it further because their emotions get involved. but if you just wanted sex from this girl - why do you care what she says during sex? as long as it's not 'are you in yet?'
 

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War Against Betaism has taken Role-Reversal to a whole new level!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do these girls have emotionless sex?

I kiss a girl at a party and she starts talking about Prom...
 

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bukowski_merit said:
if you were looking for a relationship with this women and she said that - i could understand your concern. but even then - many women who start out as f@ck buddies end up wanting to take it further because their emotions get involved. but if you just wanted sex from this girl - why do you care what she says during sex? as long as it's not 'are you in yet?'
We've been talking for a month and I know she really likes me, she told me she dropped all the guys she was talking to for me. But yeah, I have my answer :)

I was overreacting because fvck buddy seems like a lowly like status in society in my eyes.
 
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