"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok wtf I feel used

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So I was fvcking this girl last night and she said I was the best person in bed she's ever been with, which is surprising because she's slept with some really popular people. Well, somewhere around there she screamed out "OMG I found my new **** buddy!" and then I just stopped. I was like "What's that suppose to mean?" She's like "Please don't stop," and I took it out of her and demanded an answer. Then she told me "I'm sorry, just that I've never had sex like this before." And then we continued.

I was thinking about it again today, I'm not sure if she meant to compliment me or if she really just wants me as her fvck buddy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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she was trying to compliment you by sounding cool, instead of saying something corny like "omg i love you and want to have your babies one day."
 

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Poor you, poor you. Tell her you first want to get to know her a lot better before you guys have sex again.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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penkitten said:
she was trying to compliment you by sounding cool, instead of saying something corny like "omg i love you and want to have your babies one day."
Yeah, that sounds right, I just wasn't sure of an answer. I know she likes me, I just never had anyone say that to me while we're doing it.
 

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War Against Betaism said:
Says the person with the name Stephane.
I'm guessing you don't know the difference between a french, and english name. Grow a brain too while your at it.
 

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penkitten is right. Why did you overreact so much? Are you trying to find true love by dating hors?
 

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Stéphane said:
I'm guessing you don't know the difference between a french, and english name. Grow a brain too while your at it.
The irony of it all.
 

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Obsidian said:
penkitten is right. Why did you overreact so much? Are you trying to find true love by dating hors?
I wouldn't really say she's a *****, at least not as much of a ***** as other girls I've slept with. I guess I over analyzed the situation a bit too much, I do have a tendency to do that, a part of my game and personality I need to work on :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I was fvcking this girl last night and she said I was the best person in bed she's ever been with....he screamed out "OMG I found my new **** buddy!"


nah, she's not a hor at all...
 

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Oh well.

Big deal.

If she really just wants you for a fvck buddy and not a relationship it sounds like a good deal for you.

Meanwhile you can game other chicks and still get your rocks off with this one.

Its a win win.
 

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if you were looking for a relationship with this women and she said that - i could understand your concern. but even then - many women who start out as f@ck buddies end up wanting to take it further because their emotions get involved. but if you just wanted sex from this girl - why do you care what she says during sex? as long as it's not 'are you in yet?'
 

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War Against Betaism has taken Role-Reversal to a whole new level!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do these girls have emotionless sex?

I kiss a girl at a party and she starts talking about Prom...
 

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bukowski_merit said:
if you were looking for a relationship with this women and she said that - i could understand your concern. but even then - many women who start out as f@ck buddies end up wanting to take it further because their emotions get involved. but if you just wanted sex from this girl - why do you care what she says during sex? as long as it's not 'are you in yet?'
We've been talking for a month and I know she really likes me, she told me she dropped all the guys she was talking to for me. But yeah, I have my answer :)

I was overreacting because fvck buddy seems like a lowly like status in society in my eyes.
 
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