“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ok to write a letter to her (co-worker) in this case?

italostud

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Worked with this woman who is my age for a few months. All signs were there as she touched me a lot and liked to get really close to me and would always seem to be around me whenever she could.

I never made a move though even though I should have, but I was just hesitant because we worked together on the same shift. We're both fairly high up in the company so we both have a lot invested in our careers.

I've just found out that I'm moving to another shift and that I won't be working with her anymore. She was quite disappointed when she heard the news and kept trying to talk to me the last couple days we worked together. That was probably the perfect time for me to make a move, but I didn't (stupid of me I know).

With me being on a different shift now, I won't see her much if at all (maybe once every couple of weeks for a couple minutes in between shifts)

Anyways, I'm thinking about just writing her some kind of quick letter and leaving it on her desk. Basically just something quick and flirty and funny.

I'm not sure if this is a good approach though. I'm fairly confident she's into me, but of course there's a chance I could have been wrong and may open myself to the possibility of her showing the letter around etc. I doubt that would happen but you never know.

I don't know. Is the written word ever suitable for trying to pick up?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! When you see her next time,grab your balls [not actually,but act like you have a pair]and tell her you'd like to hang out sometime,ask for her number and date her.

1} you don't want to come off as weak
2} you don't want to have WRITTEN documentation for a sexual harassment charge.
 

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sodbuster said:
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! When you see her next time,grab your balls [not actually,but act like you have a pair]and tell her you'd like to hang out sometime,ask for her number and date her.

1} you don't want to come off as weak
2} you don't want to have WRITTEN documentation for a sexual harassment charge.
Agreed.

DO NOT write a letter.

She may be interested, or she may be a c@cktease leading you on.

Only one way to find out...
 
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