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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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Ok to eat once a day?

j0n024

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I have a question....

I am trying to lose weight and I have started to eat once a day. I usually eat a big mean at Dinner time and during the day I usually eat just a snack like yogurt or apeice of fruit, I do eat at lunch maybe a sandwich but other then that I eat at night. Is this good to do or am I doing something bad?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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conventional wisdom says its bad. eating six meals a day keeps your metabolism chugging along. eating one meal slows it down.
 

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How do you feel? As far as fitness are you lacking? I have been known to have some kind of out there ideas about nutrition. Conventional wisdom says six meals a day, which I do that sort of thing. But a few decades ago medical studies showed that smoking was very healthy. I saw an old ad recently by the soft drink coalition or something saying it is good to start babies on a healthy regimine of soft drinks as early as possible.

Jesus said...at least once, probably more, usually when he healed someone, "according to your faith be it unto you". I used to write down everything I ate in highschool when I first started working out, senior year second half. I ate so much crap, sausage biscuits, pop tarts, cookies. I ate cereal all the time, Crap cereal, like fruit loops. People would say, all that sugar is bad for you, I said, it's good carbs to give my muscles energy to rebuild. I had freaking great abs and was gaining incredibly then. And yeah I actually did believe that the fruit loops were giving me valuable carbs.

Anyway, I think if its working for you keep it up.

Just to note, I think knowledge about nutrition is good. But I think our common sense, or maybe just instinct is very wonderful.
 

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j0n024 said:
I have a question....

I am trying to lose weight and I have started to eat once a day. I usually eat a big mean at Dinner time and during the day I usually eat just a snack like yogurt or apeice of fruit, I do eat at lunch maybe a sandwich but other then that I eat at night. Is this good to do or am I doing something bad?
That is horrible.


Try to eat more earlier in the day, and less at night.

You need to have breakfast so your metabolism gets started! Try to eat small portions and more frequently.

If you only eat once a day, your body is in "starvation" mode and it will just store the food as FAT.

If you eat more frequently, you train your body to burn the calories because it KNOWS you will get more in 3 hours.

Eat well balanced meals and don't try to starve yourself.


Good Luck :rock:
 

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Ohh ok..the reason is because I am not on a diet and just try to eat "Healthy." I am switching to wheat bread now and I eat lots of fruit and vegtables but during dinner time I usually eat whatever they make so that's why I am asking the question. I do work out and run so I am athletic and still young so I dont know if my behavior is bad or not, my bmi is 26.7 so it's pretty high for my size and that's why I am trying to lose weight is there anything I can eat so it will go down because I seen some diets and it's usally just eggs and shake which sounds kinda boring.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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j0n024 said:
I have a question....

I am trying to lose weight and I have started to eat once a day. I usually eat a big mean at Dinner time and during the day I usually eat just a snack like yogurt or apeice of fruit, I do eat at lunch maybe a sandwich but other then that I eat at night. Is this good to do or am I doing something bad?
You poor soul.
 

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err ur eating nowhere near enough durign the day and too much during the night... eat breakfast, and make sure to eat lunch and dinner too (if ur only goal is weight loss u don't need to eat as many proteins or as often even though it's still recommended)
 

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6 a day.

MM
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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