ok this is tricky

[rottweiler_273]

SO there is thos girl at school. Ive had the hots for her for a few weeks but only really said more than hey to her on Wednesday. She sat next to me on the bus and we got talking,it turns out we like the same music and she is a lot less stuck up than people think. She was talking bout how her bf never paid her any attention so she dumped him. She sat next to me on Thursday again and we were talking more except this time she was starting to touch my hand and my back. Whenever I talk to her now she smiles and laughs more than she seems to when talking to other people. This might be because I am ao much more laid back than her friends are and she might just want somoene more relaxed to talk to or whether she actually likes me.
PLease reply to this when you read it

 

[SenorSuave]

Nah, it's not too tricky. She's obviously into you. If she brought up a conversation about how she dumped her bf, that should be an obvious sign.

 

[rottweiler_273]

Nah, it's not too tricky. She's obviously into you. If she brought up a conversation about how she dumped her bf, that should be an obvious sign.

That is what I thought but it wasn't exactly like that. We were talking for about a minute and someone made a joke we should go out. She repiled by saying she only dumped her bf that day then she went into telling me about the fact he paid no attention and wanted to know what I would do if I was off out with someone.

 

[SenorSuave]

Yea dude, she definitely sounds interested. Just play it out awhile more and try to grab some brownie points, you'll be fine

 

[rottweiler_273]

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So what would you reccomend? bear in mind I have only realy had two conversations with her.

 

[SenorSuave]

Well, you said you two seem to like the same bands, so I'm guessing you like the same kind of music overall. Why not try a small concert. I don't mean at a stadium with a big band (and pricetag). Just a little ragtag band but with the same kind of music. Or, try to find out some other things in common, just try not to be in her face though. Major turn down for women. Just try some small steps at first, and if she sits with you again, try applying a little kino. Not too much though, after all, it is a school bus.

 

[rottweiler_273]

She actually initiated Kino already lol
Also when I said same music I meant classic rock music which is pretty hard to find round here its mostly punk or indie. We do both have a common interenst in history she plays the flute[I play guitar] errm we have both lived in this area about the same length of time. sorry I just get nervous with girls and I'm trying to get all I can so I dont screw up with this one

 

[SenorSuave]

Hey it's cool. Classic rock, I see where that might be a problem. But, you both play an instrument so there is still a good connection. Are you in any classes together? If so then try asking for help with something or lending help, and while you're at it, add the bonus that you'll display some of your guitar skills. As for the kino, if she initiated it then you have a nice catch, but you should apply some yourself to make sure she knows you have some interest.

 

[Plec07]

I reckon she's interested, but remember she's also on the rebound and probably looking for attention from you if she dumped her bf because she lacked it from him.

I would say use this to your advantage by giving her that attention and then suddenly stripping it away from her as quickly as it came. Some may think this is risky, and I agree, but if it works she'll be falling head over heals for you in no time. After all the bigger the risk, the bigger the reward.

And if it does fail theres always more fish in the sea.

 

[SenorSuave]

Agreed, you need to make a point that, while you might be interested, she's not the only possibility in your life

 

[rottweiler_273]

We do occasionally have music together when but she is in the top group for music and we are only rarely put together
Yeah I realise there are more girls and Im relaising that more and more everyday.like 3 weeks ago I asked a girl out; I was hung on her for ages. I passed up oppurtunities for going out with someone cos i liked her, she said no when I asked her but I didnt maind too much

 

[SenorSuave]

I see. Well use that as a conversation. Maybe plan a jam session (a flute and a guitar thats a bit new). But again, make sure she's not the only one in your life. Play the field.

 

[rottweiler_273]

Yeah that would be something awesome especially as she told me she can play Back in Black and Crazy Train on the flute
One more thing.....we both love rugby

 

[SenorSuave]

Nice, see, you two could definitely jam. Haha, throw some "Free Bird" in there and you've just spent 9 minutes of your time together

 

[rottweiler_273]

HAha yh but tbh with me 9 minutes alone with a girl usually leads somwhere

 

[Plec07]

Lol you could try creating a duo in the style of the 'free bird' solo and then get a gig, that'll be fun for sure.

Me and a mate did a guitar/trumpet duo in the style of Van halen/Lynyrd Skynyrd. Had great fun creating, trying to get it to work and performing it lol, I'm sure it'll be even more fun when your doin it with a gal.

 

[Plec07]

HAha yh but tbh with me 9 minutes alone with a girl usually leads somwhere

Even better

 

[rottweiler_273]

Lol you could try creating a duo in the style of the 'free bird' solo and then get a gig, that'll be fun for sure.

Me and a mate did a guitar/trumpet duo in the style of Van halen/Lynyrd Skynyrd. Had great fun creating, trying to get it to work and performing it lol, I'm sure it'll be even more fun when your doin it with a gal.

lmao that is something I would love to see and play

 

[SenorSuave]

Plus, you get that famous side note, BROWNIE POINTS

 

[rottweiler_273]

Even better

lol yh its weird I usually have trouble getting the girl but when I do get them and am alone with them its weird they can't get enough of me [I know how egotistic that sounded,sorry]