"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ok this is odd help me

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Ok well I was goin out with that senior. SO today she dumped me becuase she said

" I just want to start as friends and go from there, I think we went too fast and I dont know you very well"

Ok she did this on the phone and I heard this girl that wanted her to dump me in the backgroudn becuase some guy likes her and she told him she dont wanna bf then she went out with me...

So later i went to dial her friends number to talk about her and see whats up but i accidently dialed the girl who just dumped mes number and was all freakin out like "should i give up on her do i even have a chance" she was like o its me and i was like **** shes all its ok then she wanted me to hangout with her later tongith

So i hungout with her we drove ALL around town forever then stoped at her girl friends house and we all talked and well when we went back to her house where my car was i went to leave and i gotta hug What is going on does she like me did i go to fast or what? I did have her take most her clothes off after knowin eachother for a few hours im so damn confused
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hmmm.. dont sweat it. maybe it was cuz of her friend. who knows whatevers goin on in the mind of a female.

you should start workin on her IL. considering the fact that she LJBFd u cuz of her friends. that meant that her IL still wasn't enuf.

btw, you should work on her friends too. get their vote.
 

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uhmm whats LJBFd mean ? And im thinking ill just hangout with her and her friends and see where it goes like go to movies with em hangout bring my friends etc and make sure they are the none single ones so i dont have compitition. And just be nice to her and make sure to have fun then maybe she will go back out with me i do not know i guess if anything ill end up with a friend..
 

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You've been here almost 8 months and you ask something like this?

Have you even read the bible? Truthfully.
 

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1. Due to high school girls vulnerability to social conditioning her IL which was once there has dropped, big time. It sounds as if her decision to break up with you had a lot of doing because of her friends, of course this isn't the only possible reason, you might be bad at sex(or might not even of made a move), you might not be her type or the most common of all reasons, she might have met a guy she likes more who appears to of shown interest in her.

2. Number 1 doesnt really matter, its the action you undertake from this moment on that REALLY matters. Thoughts inspire action but thats all, in no case do thought carry out action - this has to be your own doing. You should forget her and go and find more girls, simple and to the point - Let go!

Hope this helped mate :) Good luck
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Evil-Rom
You've been here almost 8 months and you ask something like this?

Have you even read the bible? Truthfully.
Ding ding ding! We have a winner!
 

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small request-
can people please try harder to use proper grammer and spelling. I had to read your post at least 3 times before I understood what you were trying to say and I'm still pretty confused.
 
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ok since it didnt make since...


Ok I met this senior on Thursday. We cuddled and kissed (she knew I had a gf) I dumped my gf, then went to the seniors house becuase she wanted to hangout. I got there with a movie. Through the whole movie she was on top of me making out and then she took some her clothes off. So I asked her out.

She said yes. We went out for a few days and she said she really liked me. Her friend though tried to break us up becuase she had told some guy she liked that she "didnt want a BF" so a few days later (yesterday) she dumped me becuase she said we went way to fast and she wanted to start as friends and maybe go from there.

So after dumping me. I called her back when her bimbo **** blocking friend wasnt with her and she wanted to hangout so we did then she hugged me and i went home. We just drove around in her car alot then stoped at a girls house... SOO... ??? WTF?
 

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thanks for the revised post Who1987, however I don't know what to tell you about this girl though :-/
 
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