"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok this **** is getting old

pdx1138

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not all of them, but I know where your coming from.

take a time out from the dating.

The biggest problem is that women have many other options. Put yourself in their shoes.....if you had so many women throwing themselves at you, you would be hard pressed which to pick...wouldn't you?

I've had quite a few of those great dates recently where everything seemed awesome and they never contacted me again. One of them I found out from facebook (she wasn't a friend on there but her profile was public) she had actually met a dude from out of town the week before we met.....I found out he was coming down the next day to stay the weekend with her, so I didn't really even have a chance at that point.

Just take some time off for awhile.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thevilittletroll

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if i could give you one peice of advice it would be this.....be more aggressive and close sooner. a lot of men think that just because a woman gives you her phone # that means she's into you. not necessarily the case. women are constantly testing you every step of the way. i would suggest a new approach to your game. close the deal the same night you meet them. dont worry about trying to get phone #'s and setting up dates. strike while the iron is hot. it will also tell you how well in real time your game is.
 
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