"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok this **** is getting old

pdx1138

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not all of them, but I know where your coming from.

take a time out from the dating.

The biggest problem is that women have many other options. Put yourself in their shoes.....if you had so many women throwing themselves at you, you would be hard pressed which to pick...wouldn't you?

I've had quite a few of those great dates recently where everything seemed awesome and they never contacted me again. One of them I found out from facebook (she wasn't a friend on there but her profile was public) she had actually met a dude from out of town the week before we met.....I found out he was coming down the next day to stay the weekend with her, so I didn't really even have a chance at that point.

Just take some time off for awhile.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thevilittletroll

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if i could give you one peice of advice it would be this.....be more aggressive and close sooner. a lot of men think that just because a woman gives you her phone # that means she's into you. not necessarily the case. women are constantly testing you every step of the way. i would suggest a new approach to your game. close the deal the same night you meet them. dont worry about trying to get phone #'s and setting up dates. strike while the iron is hot. it will also tell you how well in real time your game is.
 
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