"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok this **** is getting old

pdx1138

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not all of them, but I know where your coming from.

take a time out from the dating.

The biggest problem is that women have many other options. Put yourself in their shoes.....if you had so many women throwing themselves at you, you would be hard pressed which to pick...wouldn't you?

I've had quite a few of those great dates recently where everything seemed awesome and they never contacted me again. One of them I found out from facebook (she wasn't a friend on there but her profile was public) she had actually met a dude from out of town the week before we met.....I found out he was coming down the next day to stay the weekend with her, so I didn't really even have a chance at that point.

Just take some time off for awhile.
 

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thevilittletroll

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if i could give you one peice of advice it would be this.....be more aggressive and close sooner. a lot of men think that just because a woman gives you her phone # that means she's into you. not necessarily the case. women are constantly testing you every step of the way. i would suggest a new approach to your game. close the deal the same night you meet them. dont worry about trying to get phone #'s and setting up dates. strike while the iron is hot. it will also tell you how well in real time your game is.
 
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