“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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OK, so women suck (both ways) - what can you do?

Babnik

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All women (except the Islamic ones who will get stoned) love sex.
All women who can - cheat.
All women are just as bad (if not worse) as men.
Women should NOT be treated with respect. They should be treated like worthless subhuman dogs.


What can be done? Something realistic.... there will be NO special organization to put women back in their place.


If you go on HATING, dissing then your life will suck because all of it is just too negative. Hating them won't make you happy. Getting laid won't make you happy.


So, I guess we are forced to just accept it and not let it bother us.


Its just its hard to even f*ck a woman because its like f*cking a dog. It turns on and then it brings this feeling of disgust.

Seriously, I feel like I want and yet don't want to f*ck them out of self respect.

Dead end. Castration?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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God damn do you have a lot of growing up to do.

Hey junior - everything you said about girls can be said about guys.

we cheat if we can get away
we love to ****
we only think about one thing.

It is about learning to distingish between a quality person and a ****ty person. it is about looking at the behavior.. it is about looking at a lot of things.


It's been covered a million times. Love with your mind not your heart. Do not judge too soon but be cautious.

You girl can absolutely love you and still **** someone else.. FOR PURELY BIOLOGICAL REASONS..

Everyone who is still trying to find answers

go to amazon

type in "Sperm Wars"

buy and read, it will explain all of this so you won't be sitting here starting retarded threads.
 

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Oxide said:
God damn do you have a lot of growing up to do.

Hey junior - everything you said about girls can be said about guys.

we cheat if we can get away
we love to ****
we only think about one thing.

It is about learning to distingish between a quality person and a ****ty person. it is about looking at the behavior.. it is about looking at a lot of things.


It's been covered a million times. Love with your mind not your heart. Do not judge too soon but be cautious.

You girl can absolutely love you and still **** someone else.. FOR PURELY BIOLOGICAL REASONS..

Everyone who is still trying to find answers

go to amazon

type in "Sperm Wars"

buy and read, it will explain all of this so you won't be sitting here starting retarded threads.


So, when a girl cheats on you, comes to you and says "I love you" you jsut FORGIVE her?

Man, so many girls love me and I love SO many girls too!

If its OK to **** around for biological reasons then why form relationships in the first place?
 

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Who said it was OK?! I just said it happens. "Will is what separates the humans from the chimps" - we can resist the urges if we are strong enough...and if we want to.

Just get the damn book already.
 

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Oxide said:
Who said it was OK?! I just said it happens. "Will is what separates the humans from the chimps" - we can resist the urges if we are strong enough...and if we want to.

Just get the damn book already.

Well, it can HAPPEN many times and IT HAPPENS isn't going to cut it.

Seriously, taking a girl back after she cheated on you is as AFC as it GETS!
 

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Oh so Islamic women don't like sex huh?

Interesting, considering the sluttiest MILFs and college girls i've ever seen where from Tehran.
 

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Babnik said:
All women (except the Islamic ones who will get stoned) love sex.
All women who can - cheat.
All women are just as bad (if not worse) as men.
Women should NOT be treated with respect. They should be treated like worthless subhuman dogs.


What can be done? Something realistic.... there will be NO special organization to put women back in their place.


If you go on HATING, dissing then your life will suck because all of it is just too negative. Hating them won't make you happy. Getting laid won't make you happy.


So, I guess we are forced to just accept it and not let it bother us.


Its just its hard to even f*ck a woman because its like f*cking a dog. It turns on and then it brings this feeling of disgust.

Seriously, I feel like I want and yet don't want to f*ck them out of self respect.

Dead end. Castration?
this post is horrible. if you feel this badly about women go fvck a guy?

all people should be treated with respect unless they prove are not worthy of your respect. (notice that i'm talking about common respect, actual respect must be earned.)

sure women cheat, so do men. if your girl cheats on you, you only have yourself to blame for not being able to keep her interested in you.

women love sex- how is this in ANY way bad?
 

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Kev07 said:
this post is horrible. if you feel this badly about women go fvck a guy?

all people should be treated with respect unless they prove are not worthy of your respect. (notice that i'm talking about common respect, actual respect must be earned.)

sure women cheat, so do men. if your girl cheats on you, you only have yourself to blame for not being able to keep her interested in you.

women love sex- how is this in ANY way bad?


Don't take babnik serious.
 

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Babnik said:
All women (except the Islamic ones who will get stoned) love sex.
All women who can - cheat.
All women are just as bad (if not worse) as men.
Women should NOT be treated with respect. They should be treated like worthless subhuman dogs.


What can be done? Something realistic.... there will be NO special organization to put women back in their place.


If you go on HATING, dissing then your life will suck because all of it is just too negative. Hating them won't make you happy. Getting laid won't make you happy.


So, I guess we are forced to just accept it and not let it bother us.


Its just its hard to even f*ck a woman because its like f*cking a dog. It turns on and then it brings this feeling of disgust.

Seriously, I feel like I want and yet don't want to f*ck them out of self respect.

Dead end. Castration?
And what makes you so superior?
So what seperates you from the above you just posted.

i will tell you what sperates you from what you posted, women can have sex pritty much when they want, or it's easier, but can they?

Women have a morbid fear of rejection so only the most slutty of slut*s will go for it, the others, fear rejection about 30x more then you would, does not mean they wone fuc* a man that chats them up.

Anyway the point is, before you try to make youreself out to be the 2nd coming of chri* with no HUMAN faults then i would suggest you refrain from branding women since men are no better.

get resentful get piss*d or face it this shi* as been going on for a very very long time the difference is community like this show men what women are REALLY LIKE and open there eyes, if you dont like to see then dont open the box, simple!
 

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It is AMAZING how suddenly all these guys who constantly advice you to treat women like crap SUDDENLY say "Lets give women respect!"

If you post "Treat them like crap" then you opposite opinions. If you post "Respect women" then you get "You are delusion, you must treat them like crap" replies!


This is a good example of how this forum works. You can NEVER, EVER get anything right. Everything everyone does in the field is always wrong!

Ha.

And I never said Islamic women don't like sex, but in their traditional families and in Middle Eastern countries they would get punished badly for cheating or even having pre-marital sex.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Babnik said:
It is AMAZING how suddenly all these guys who constantly advice you to treat women like crap SUDDENLY say "Lets give women respect!"

If you post "Treat them like crap" then you opposite opinions. If you post "Respect women" then you get "You are delusion, you must treat them like crap" replies!


This is a good example of how this forum works. You can NEVER, EVER get anything right. Everything everyone does in the field is always wrong!

Ha.

And I never said Islamic women don't like sex, but in their traditional families and in Middle Eastern countries they would get punished badly for cheating or even having pre-marital sex.
Dont brand me a women hater, your the one with issues.

As for the other posters well they clearly have more knoweldge then you, so if knowing how women are from experiance and being around them and sleeping with them, effects a virgin or a guy who as slept with a total of 1 which is probably your case, makes them a women hater in your eyes, the only thing i can think of is jealousy?

Or resentment.

Or your trying to feed an ego, or the feeling of importance by posting threads on the Currrent trend on the fourms to gain approval.
 

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This site does not promote treating women like crap. It says you can make them feel real good by being playfully mean.

It doesn't suggest having no respect for women, it advises to have more respect for yourself.

All women do not cheat, but they are not angels either.

You might be gay, f*cking a woman should not be like f*cking a dog. Perhaps you need to meet better quality women.
 

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Oxide said:
God damn do you have a lot of growing up to do.
Borat II: Borat and Babnik's Great Adventure
 

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I'll give you one final advice kid, and if you don't listen now then sometime down the road you will hit the wall, feeling like your life has gone nowhere... you will look back and agree that I was right:

The advice is this:

Drop your stupid ego, realize that you are young and hence do not know sh1t (and not really expected to yet), shut your mouth when you want to speak or try to appear witty and just LISTEN and ABSORB.

A smart man learns from his mistakes, a genius learns from the mistakes of others. But you can't do either without listening and paying attention.

Eventually you'll figure out where it all fits. To get you on the right track - watch Entourage, watch the main character Vince. This is really close to what I do, and it works wonderfully.

Good luck
 

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Oxide said:
I'll give you one final advice kid, and if you don't listen now then sometime down the road you will hit the wall, feeling like your life has gone nowhere... you will look back and agree that I was right:

The advice is this:

Drop your stupid ego, realize that you are young and hence do not know sh1t (and not really expected to yet), shut your mouth when you want to speak or try to appear witty and just LISTEN and ABSORB.

A smart man learns from his mistakes, a genius learns from the mistakes of others. But you can't do either without listening and paying attention.

Eventually you'll figure out where it all fits. To get you on the right track - watch Entourage, watch the main character Vince. This is really close to what I do, and it works wonderfully.

Good luck

I learn from the mistakes of others just fine, which is why I have never been broken hearted and never did real AFC things like buying flowers, or being too available, or being nice, or even talking in a wimpy voice.

So, I do absorb what I am told, but I am the one who will make the final decision. Just cuz you said so and I understood it still doesn't MAKE IT SO.

I did this with parents and they love for it. I always listened, but the final decision was after me. Often enough, I went against what they have told me because I trusted myself and I was RIGHT.

Believe it or not, my ego is like that for a reason. I never made a single big mistake in my life that I regret. AMAZING, but it is so. Mostly because I did listen and I did absorb and I did stop my emotions, put myself in control, rationalized, and made the right choice.

My life is like heaven because of this. I have no baggage. Everything in my life is as good as it can be because I can control myself and make the right decisions. This is where my ego comes from. I believe that if I can be like this then someone I should care for should ALSO be like this. I deserve someone like that.

And somehow...raw cold logic tells me I shouldn't f*ck around because women do and that if I stop myself from doing so, so can they OR they truly are below men.
 

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Babnik said:
It is AMAZING how suddenly all these guys who constantly advice you to treat women like crap SUDDENLY say "Lets give women respect!"

If you post "Treat them like crap" then you opposite opinions. If you post "Respect women" then you get "You are delusion, you must treat them like crap" replies!


This is a good example of how this forum works. You can NEVER, EVER get anything right. Everything everyone does in the field is always wrong!
Hipocricy is one of the problems with this forum. That and not explaining things thoroughly.

Didn't you get the memo?
 

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Sure some women are promiscuous and cheat.

If you are looking for some fun then this is a good thing. If you have game and are ok looking you can get sex pretty easily.

If you are looking for a relationship it is more of a problem. So you have to learn to filter girls. And the more experience you have of girls the easier you'll find it to do this.

Obviously the sort of girls you meet in clubs who are superhot and wearing practically nothing are unlikely to be relationship material.

Also you should probably bear in mind that the hotter the girl the more options she has and therefore more opportunities she will have to cheat.

Finally most young girls are not really looking to settle down. They enjoy their freedom and are always waiting for someone better to come along. Again this is especially true of hot chicks.

Accept it.

If you still decide you want a relationship here is my advice:

1) Make sure you are with girls with very high interest level. These girls are less likely to cheat.

2) If it looks like a slut, talks like a slut and walks like a slut it probably is a slut.

3) Go for 7s and 8s rather than 9s or 10s.

4) If she has ever cheated on a guy the odds are not good. Similarly if she has never been in a serious relationship and is over say twenty it is not a great sign as it probably indicates she is not ready to settle down period. Of course there is an offchance she just has not met the right guy and that guy is you, but the odds are not with you.

5) Clubs and bars are not the best place to find girls for relationships. Better meet girls through charity work, social activities, friends of a friend etc.
 

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Babnik, I have a serious thought for you to consider.

Your thoughts are your reality.

"What on earth does that mean?" you might be asking. It means if you think you're smart, you'll act like you're smart. If you think cooking is easy, you'll find cooking to be fairly easy. If you think women are worthless and disgust you, then you'll find that you have no respect for women and struggle being with one.

It also means if you think women are respectable humans, you'll treat them as respectable humans.

What do you want to think women are? Seriously, ask yourself that question. You should not be listening to us as the gospel, our thoughts and opinions should only help you come to your own conclusion.

Why would you take our word as the only way it can be? Especially when you flat out said it, there are contradicting opinions!

Think for yourself. It's the only way you'll get what you want, otherwise you'll be blaming others for what happens to you, when it was you who did not take responsibility for your own life.
 

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kyphan said:
Babnik, I have a serious thought for you to consider.

Your thoughts are your reality.

"What on earth does that mean?" you might be asking. It means if you think you're smart, you'll act like you're smart. If you think cooking is easy, you'll find cooking to be fairly easy. If you think women are worthless and disgust you, then you'll find that you have no respect for women and struggle being with one.

It also means if you think women are respectable humans, you'll treat them as respectable humans.

What do you want to think women are? Seriously, ask yourself that question. You should not be listening to us as the gospel, our thoughts and opinions should only help you come to your own conclusion.

Why would you take our word as the only way it can be? Especially when you flat out said it, there are contradicting opinions!

Think for yourself. It's the only way you'll get what you want, otherwise you'll be blaming others for what happens to you, when it was you who did not take responsibility for your own life.

All that I am saying is that if I could f*ck 100 HB10s like a stud, I would seriously NOT. If I had the opportunity to f*ck around I would still CONTROL (not complete suppression though) myself. Women, however, decided NOT to control themselves at all.

How could you ever respect a girl who can't control herself? Control makes us human in a way.

Its like "Hey, doggy, I'm going to act this way and that way, and in turn you will be attracted and since you are just an animal, you WILL f*ck me!" and then me who would say "You look amazing, I want you, but you're a slut and thats nasty, and I will NOT f*ck you"

Men have control. Women don't have control. If they are attracted - they do it. Men have more morals than women and more logic and self-control. So, women are just dogs.
 

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not all women are like what you say, and not all men are like what you say.

if i could, i would go fvck 100 hbs (if they are clean of course).

i don't even see how that is a bad thing, unless they are commited to something, where as i said before, it's your fault if your girl strays.

and don't be a feminst, this site does not preach to treat women like shvt, just to not get yourself walked on. sound familiar? i remember an article that some feminist wrote just a few weeks back...
 
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