"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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OK, so what now . . .

reveazure

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OK, story for you all.

This girl from the internet that I had talked to a few times wanted to come over, and spend the night. I had never met her, but I figured ok whatever. So she comes, she was kind of pretty I thought, we watch a movie, cuddle for a bit. The movie ends, I try to make out with her but she is not really into the kissing, I take off her clothes, finger her for a while, then we cuddle some more. By then it was like 2 AM so we went to my bed, and I knew she wanted to fvck me but I had never had sex or even put on a condom before.

So I'm in my underwear and she's naked, and she's like pinning me in between her legs and stuff, and at this point I'm thinking, oh, well, she is quite a bit more awkward looking than she was in her clothes, and I have no erection whatsoever, so eventually we get enough of this hardcore cuddling and go to sleep.

I was thinking maybe I would have sex with her in the morning when the awkwardness wore off, but she didn't want to wake up, and then we had to leave.

So now I feel like, what do I do now? Whoever I meet next, I'm gonna be thinking about this and feeling awkward and it will suck once again.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Makro2323

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Don't worry about it, sometimes things like that happen. You probably just weren't in the mood. It's weird that you weren't able to get an erection though, didn't the sight of her naked arouse you in any way?
 

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Stupid biatch didn't know what she was doing.

That, and let her put on the condom.

But if she's that prude anyways...I guess you'll have to show her the ropes. I like the idea where I explore her for a bit, and I come up to her and tell her to 'explore'.
 
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