Ok. So we spin plates, but aren't we just being dependent all the same?

[gdathrowaway]

Here's the thing. Spinning plates is effective no doubt. The hotter your plates are, the less you become depressed when any of your relationship with your plates turn a little off.

But isn't that just the same with all oneitis? Just having manyitis?

That essentially, we're still emotionally dependent on women, and it just so happens that it's not just one?

 

[Mr Wright]

I've given up on being worried about how things look on paper because most things seem to look pretty crap on paper. But as long as I'm happy I don't care. Guys are getting to wrapped up in the mental masturbation instead of actually just living their lives and being happy.

If you're an average hetrosexual male, chances are, you are going to end up emotionally involved with a female at some point. What separates the men from the boys is knowing that it doesn't last forever and going in with the attitude that you have to enjoy every moment rather than trying to pick holes in everything she does because that makes it crappy. If you're unhappy, leave. If you're happy, stick around. It's so simple.

Oneitis is a made up term, which simply highlights the fact that you should respect yourself and not spend your time longing after something that you can never truly have. But instead guys have read it to mean that having emotions for a woman is terminal. I love women and I prefer to get emotionally involved even if it's just for a few hours because it makes me happy. But once that moment is over, you have to get your emotions in check and look at it for what it really is.

Life is a gift, so don't spend your time worrying about nonsense like this. Bang chicks and be happy.

 

[VikingKing]

No. All human beings have some level of narcissism.

 

[gdathrowaway]

No. All human beings have some level of narcissism.

Thanks for the reply noobolgy. But i don't get the point of this one.

 

[El Payaso]

I've given up on being worried about how things look on paper because most things seem to look pretty crap on paper. But as long as I'm happy I don't care. Guys are getting to wrapped up in the mental masturbation instead of actually just living their lives and being happy.

If you're an average hetrosexual male, chances are, you are going to end up emotionally involved with a female at some point. What separates the men from the boys is knowing that it doesn't last forever and going in with the attitude that you have to enjoy every moment rather than trying to pick holes in everything she does because that makes it crappy. If you're unhappy, leave. If you're happy, stick around. It's so simple.

Oneitis is a made up term, which simply highlights the fact that you should respect yourself and not spend your time longing after something that you can never truly have. But instead guys have read it to mean that having emotions for a woman is terminal. I love women and I prefer to get emotionally involved even if it's just for a few hours because it makes me happy. But once that moment is over, you have to get your emotions in check and look at it for what it really is.

Life is a gift, so don't spend your time worrying about nonsense like this. Bang chicks and be happy.

Excellent post!

 

[JoeMarron]

lying to yourself that you dont need sex.

This. Men are always going to be dependent on women to a certain degree because men are always gonna want sex. Women are the same way. Humans are social creatures, we weren't meant to be completely independent. Spinning plates gives a man leverage that he wouldn't have by putting all his eggs in one basket.