"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok, so.. now what with this milf?

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(single mom, lives byherself) she works with me but rarely see her at work, only like once or twice a month..

other day, i got her number cause she gave me a clear hint that day (i think)

we were in the break room then i said:
me: im outta hear, see you later (as i was about to leave the break room) she said
milf: you might not see me next week!

so, i decided to ask for her number that day, which took a lot of guts. And so i got it. =)

So... whats next? seriously.

1. Go to a bar, then her house?
2. call her and ask if she wants to see a movie then do it?
3. "im coming over, lets fvck"
4. give me your solution do this fellow djs
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oh brother...

Based on the maturity level of your post I wouldn't advise you to go after the older, more mature women. Younger guys can only pull this off if they are mature and somewhat refined. If you call her up to announce that you are coming over for sex you're going to get shot down so fast and hard your head will spin.
 
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I read here that older mature women, do not play games and are very experienced. Im not really looking for a relationship with her
 
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Originally posted by DJnoob
I read here that older mature women, do not play games and are very experienced. Im not really looking for a relationship with her
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No, they usually don't play games. (I am an older, mature woman, by the way)

Just because we don't play games and like sex doesn't mean we tolerate disrespect and being treated like pieces of meat. And honestly, it's very foolish to solicit sex from ANY woman you work with, older or otherwise. If you ask her out on a date and she wants to have sex with you, she will let you know...but you should never just expect it or assume that just because she is older that she is going to want to have sex with you. For instance, I flat out will NOT have casual sex with anyone. If there isn't an agreement of being exclusive from the get go there will be no sex at all, period. It doesn't have to be a serious relationship, but it MUST be exclusive or I'm not interested...no exceptions.

So, although there are older women who will just have casual sex with a variety of guys...there are those of us who won't, too. If you called me and said you were coming over for sex I'd tell you to go f*ck yourself and hang up on you. The key here is respect...and if you're going to ask this woman out don't make any assumptions about her and if she wants sex she will make sure you know she does.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by DJnoob
(single mom, lives byherself) she works with me but rarely see her at work, only like once or twice a month..

other day, i got her number cause she gave me a clear hint that day (i think)

we were in the break room then i said:
me: im outta hear, see you later (as i was about to leave the break room) she said
milf: you might not see me next week!

so, i decided to ask for her number that day, which took a lot of guts. And so i got it. =)

So... whats next? seriously.

1. Go to a bar, then her house?
2. call her and ask if she wants to see a movie then do it?
3. "im coming over, lets fvck"
4. give me your solution do this fellow djs
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Where did you come up with these idiot-ass answer choices???

What would you do with a younger woman, that fact that she's older do not make a difference
 
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