First time asking out a girl ever was on monday. Ill tell you guys how it went down I said to myself damn you need to get a number TODAY. So in my head im like ok im going to ask every girl on campus until i get a phone number. So I went to the bus station on campus and leaned up against a wall and watched girls go by. And i see one I like go past me and the she stopped and started waiting for a bus. Now I was going to approach her but she was standing right by antoher girl that was pretty hot so I didn't want to get turned down in front of another person. But luckly that girl left within a few minutes and so I gathered up my courage and went in. I was going to do that "didn't we go to different high schools together line" but i ended up just saying "didn't we go the same high school". From there i forget how the convo unflolded it was pretty choppy though not very smooth. But i got the number, whew! Now this was on monday when should I phone her tonight?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ok so i got the number... When should i phone
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