First time asking out a girl ever was on monday. Ill tell you guys how it went down I said to myself damn you need to get a number TODAY. So in my head im like ok im going to ask every girl on campus until i get a phone number. So I went to the bus station on campus and leaned up against a wall and watched girls go by. And i see one I like go past me and the she stopped and started waiting for a bus. Now I was going to approach her but she was standing right by antoher girl that was pretty hot so I didn't want to get turned down in front of another person. But luckly that girl left within a few minutes and so I gathered up my courage and went in. I was going to do that "didn't we go to different high schools together line" but i ended up just saying "didn't we go the same high school". From there i forget how the convo unflolded it was pretty choppy though not very smooth. But i got the number, whew! Now this was on monday when should I phone her tonight?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ok so i got the number... When should i phone
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