"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ok so I finally figured out why I've been struggling with dating

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I was being way too desperate

I forced myself to be completely outcome independent yesterday and had great chemistry with 3 different women. You have to 100% truly and thoroughly NOT care and women will naturally be drawn to you

the problem for me is that I am so picky that I don't like most women. One I was talking to yesterday was cute and great personality but she was 33 and had a kid - no thanks. Another one I was talking to was super cute but she was too young and dumb for my taste (she was like 22) and also way too skinny - I need a lot of ass and thighs. I basically want like a 24-28 year old really cute Italian/Greek/Latin/Middle Eastern chick with no kids but everything has to be aligned, she has to be smart and have a good personality and be into fitness, etc...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bigdave17 said:
I basically want like a 24-28 year old really cute Italian/Greek/Latin/Middle Eastern chick with no kids but everything has to be aligned, she has to be smart and have a good personality and be into fitness, etc...
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ok maybe you should widen that spectrum just a little bit more. the type you are looking for are in high demand. and this desperate thing you are going through does not go away over night. it takes time to get over it. but good luck and keep practicing.
 
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