"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok so I finally figured out why I've been struggling with dating

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I was being way too desperate

I forced myself to be completely outcome independent yesterday and had great chemistry with 3 different women. You have to 100% truly and thoroughly NOT care and women will naturally be drawn to you

the problem for me is that I am so picky that I don't like most women. One I was talking to yesterday was cute and great personality but she was 33 and had a kid - no thanks. Another one I was talking to was super cute but she was too young and dumb for my taste (she was like 22) and also way too skinny - I need a lot of ass and thighs. I basically want like a 24-28 year old really cute Italian/Greek/Latin/Middle Eastern chick with no kids but everything has to be aligned, she has to be smart and have a good personality and be into fitness, etc...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bigdave17 said:
I basically want like a 24-28 year old really cute Italian/Greek/Latin/Middle Eastern chick with no kids but everything has to be aligned, she has to be smart and have a good personality and be into fitness, etc...
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ok maybe you should widen that spectrum just a little bit more. the type you are looking for are in high demand. and this desperate thing you are going through does not go away over night. it takes time to get over it. but good luck and keep practicing.
 
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