"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ok so do you guys actually get laid? SERIOUSLY??

teacha

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Quick question, just wanted to ask you guys who give advice on this board so much actually get laid or have a GF/FB?

Do you guys even interact with women on a regular basis or any level???.... and no, im not talking about your mother, sister, cousin, niece etc.

Just curious thats all......

PS question for heterosexual men only.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dunno about anyone else, but yeah, I do, and I meet lots of people all the time.

I'm a good looking and interesting person, this site helped me be more outgoing though, which is basically all I needed.

I had an advantage here though since I play in a band and everyone in my town knows who I am, and we have people who love us. :p
 

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You're judging all of us by your impression of some of us.

I get laid often enough that people around me consider me a "player" / "womaniser" / "good with the girls".

Any more questions sir?
 

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Currently just holding down one FB. I flirt a lot and do my best to get action/approach when I'm not busy . Yet I'm trying to go back to school right now and one FB is fine with me at the moment lol. Always sharpening my inner game and social skills when I do get the chance to go out though (friends be calling me Fonzie, Don Juan and **** ha). Oh and I have an awesome chic on the side *she's pretty hot ) whose down to wing me any time. We love to exchange bed room talk:)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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this question has been asked before, and all of the virgins and losers came out all offended and derailed the thread each single time.

good luck with this one

I personally have f*cked over 80 girls so far and I am 25
 

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Rescue Mission said:
this question has been asked before, and all of the virgins and losers came out all offended and derailed the thread each single time.

good luck with this one

I personally have f*cked over 80 girls so far and I am 25
Of those, how many would you f*ck again? And how many of those were desperate measures?

I'm not questioning your abilities, its just that I am nowhere near that :/
 
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2crudedudes said:
Of those, how many would you f*ck again? And how many of those were desperate measures?

I'm not questioning your abilities, its just that I am nowhere near that :/
of those, I would f*ck 90% of them again, and there were about 6 - 8 that were just me not feeling like saying no, and having sex with an hb<5 just for the experience - every experience, good and bad, helps mold the don juan
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've gotten laid about 400-500 times in the last 6 years with a limited amount of girls... i really need to get out of this sniper mentality but there's something about the love of a woman that seems appealing. lol..
 

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Yes, but by no means am I a player. I only sleep with women I intend to get in a relationship with.

I go for quality over quantity, which means there are times when I don't get any for a month or longer.

Despite what your penis says, holding out for the right girl is really worth it.
 

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Rescue Mission said:
of those, I would f*ck 90% of them again, and there were about 6 - 8 that were just me not feeling like saying no, and having sex with an hb<5 just for the experience - every experience, good and bad, helps mold the don juan
I've been particularly picky in the past (especially when I was still a virgin, and still some afterward). Now I don't get as much contact with women (not going to school presently, I work at an office with about 5 other people and rarely get out of the office), so I feel like pretty much anything that looks in my general direction is fair game :crazy:
 

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No, I am too pu55y to go any further with girls when they show sexual interest, though I should've lost my virginity at age 11.

I also do interact with girls every day ever, 'cept on weekends :up:
 

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Nino-Tk said:
i still gotta do that...dont know when but you will be the first to know when i eventually get the lay
If I knew everything I know now at your age, ...I'd be extremely dangerous haha.....

Don't worry opportunity will soon come just don't be an idiot, there's always clues/signs.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The last person I "Laid" was a HB5 about 2-3 weeks ago. She was average in the face, and unlike many people here, I do not inflate the "HB" rankings, or at least I try not to.

Just a pet-peeve, is every thread I read is about a "HB8" or "HB9". In all honesty, the girls they are with would probably be judged at 6's and 7's. Just something I noticed.

Interaction-wise, I am still working to become more and more social. I do get laid every so often, and a few drunk hook-ups.
 

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Ok next quick question, does anyone here think getting laid or getting a girl's number is an accomplishment?
 

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teacha said:
Ok next quick question, does anyone here think getting laid or getting a girl's number is an accomplishment?
not really. its just fun man. Like finding a 20 on the ground or watching a good game. It's not more important than any other past time. Accomplishments are getting a promotion you worked your ass off for, or buying a house, or getting a small business off the ground or being the best in your field and winning an award. Things you actually work to achieve. If you are working as hard to get a girls number as you are to win the nobel peace prize, I feel bad for you. The key is to LET GO. Let go of all the bad mental programming that keeps telling you that it's hard. It's not, its just the fear talking.
 

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I have GF. but she's not DTF....yet.
 

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teacha said:
Ok next quick question, does anyone here think getting laid or getting a girl's number is an accomplishment?
Depends on the girl. If its a really tough situation and I work through it and grow from it then yes. Not a big deal, but something to celebrate with some good beer.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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