"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok so do you guys actually get laid? SERIOUSLY??

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Quick question, just wanted to ask you guys who give advice on this board so much actually get laid or have a GF/FB?

Do you guys even interact with women on a regular basis or any level???.... and no, im not talking about your mother, sister, cousin, niece etc.

Just curious thats all......

PS question for heterosexual men only.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dunno about anyone else, but yeah, I do, and I meet lots of people all the time.

I'm a good looking and interesting person, this site helped me be more outgoing though, which is basically all I needed.

I had an advantage here though since I play in a band and everyone in my town knows who I am, and we have people who love us. :p
 

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You're judging all of us by your impression of some of us.

I get laid often enough that people around me consider me a "player" / "womaniser" / "good with the girls".

Any more questions sir?
 

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Currently just holding down one FB. I flirt a lot and do my best to get action/approach when I'm not busy . Yet I'm trying to go back to school right now and one FB is fine with me at the moment lol. Always sharpening my inner game and social skills when I do get the chance to go out though (friends be calling me Fonzie, Don Juan and **** ha). Oh and I have an awesome chic on the side *she's pretty hot ) whose down to wing me any time. We love to exchange bed room talk:)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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this question has been asked before, and all of the virgins and losers came out all offended and derailed the thread each single time.

good luck with this one

I personally have f*cked over 80 girls so far and I am 25
 

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Rescue Mission said:
this question has been asked before, and all of the virgins and losers came out all offended and derailed the thread each single time.

good luck with this one

I personally have f*cked over 80 girls so far and I am 25
Of those, how many would you f*ck again? And how many of those were desperate measures?

I'm not questioning your abilities, its just that I am nowhere near that :/
 
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Of those, how many would you f*ck again? And how many of those were desperate measures?

I'm not questioning your abilities, its just that I am nowhere near that :/
of those, I would f*ck 90% of them again, and there were about 6 - 8 that were just me not feeling like saying no, and having sex with an hb<5 just for the experience - every experience, good and bad, helps mold the don juan
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've gotten laid about 400-500 times in the last 6 years with a limited amount of girls... i really need to get out of this sniper mentality but there's something about the love of a woman that seems appealing. lol..
 

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Yes, but by no means am I a player. I only sleep with women I intend to get in a relationship with.

I go for quality over quantity, which means there are times when I don't get any for a month or longer.

Despite what your penis says, holding out for the right girl is really worth it.
 

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Rescue Mission said:
of those, I would f*ck 90% of them again, and there were about 6 - 8 that were just me not feeling like saying no, and having sex with an hb<5 just for the experience - every experience, good and bad, helps mold the don juan
I've been particularly picky in the past (especially when I was still a virgin, and still some afterward). Now I don't get as much contact with women (not going to school presently, I work at an office with about 5 other people and rarely get out of the office), so I feel like pretty much anything that looks in my general direction is fair game :crazy:
 

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No, I am too pu55y to go any further with girls when they show sexual interest, though I should've lost my virginity at age 11.

I also do interact with girls every day ever, 'cept on weekends :up:
 

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Nino-Tk said:
i still gotta do that...dont know when but you will be the first to know when i eventually get the lay
If I knew everything I know now at your age, ...I'd be extremely dangerous haha.....

Don't worry opportunity will soon come just don't be an idiot, there's always clues/signs.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The last person I "Laid" was a HB5 about 2-3 weeks ago. She was average in the face, and unlike many people here, I do not inflate the "HB" rankings, or at least I try not to.

Just a pet-peeve, is every thread I read is about a "HB8" or "HB9". In all honesty, the girls they are with would probably be judged at 6's and 7's. Just something I noticed.

Interaction-wise, I am still working to become more and more social. I do get laid every so often, and a few drunk hook-ups.
 

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Ok next quick question, does anyone here think getting laid or getting a girl's number is an accomplishment?
 

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teacha said:
Ok next quick question, does anyone here think getting laid or getting a girl's number is an accomplishment?
not really. its just fun man. Like finding a 20 on the ground or watching a good game. It's not more important than any other past time. Accomplishments are getting a promotion you worked your ass off for, or buying a house, or getting a small business off the ground or being the best in your field and winning an award. Things you actually work to achieve. If you are working as hard to get a girls number as you are to win the nobel peace prize, I feel bad for you. The key is to LET GO. Let go of all the bad mental programming that keeps telling you that it's hard. It's not, its just the fear talking.
 

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I have GF. but she's not DTF....yet.
 

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teacha said:
Ok next quick question, does anyone here think getting laid or getting a girl's number is an accomplishment?
Depends on the girl. If its a really tough situation and I work through it and grow from it then yes. Not a big deal, but something to celebrate with some good beer.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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