"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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OK, so 11th grade is over...

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I just finished my Junior year of high school, and I want to take the summer to become a better person. I've already got some serious plans lined up, now I want to take things to another level. I've only posted here a few times because I have most things that I could want in my life. But, I've never really been able to attract girls. I've tried DJ techniques and I'm not bad at them, I'm not ugly either. But for some reason, girls just aren't attracted to me. My friends say I have the body of a man-w.hore but get the action of a monk, so I must be doing something wrong. What though?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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become a dj, not just a user of dj techniques
 

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you have to figure out what you're doing wrong by yourself, none of us know you so we cant tell you.
 

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spoiled would like you to know that shell be there for you if you still fail with women.....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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