"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nan3109

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Do any of you guys known as "metrosexuals" aka, those who know how to dress, know how to easily start a conversation with girls, have good looks, know how to cook, etc.

Do any of you guys have girls that you know who THINK your actually gay?

I'm just wondering this because I've dated girls before and HAD sex with them and they told me it was the best they ever had and all this **** but they STILL thought I was this gay dude because I look like a metrosexual

(NOTICE: if you think this is a pointless thread and of no interest to you, move on and let it fall out of the main page of the forums. If you find topics other than "when do i call a girl" and "how do i know when to have her my g/f" then maybe you should respond to a more original topic of discussion. My topics are ones that I believe are WEIRD and therefore something that could be discussed. So kiss my white hairy ass if you don't like this topic)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ManOMan

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Why are you concerned if girls think you are gay? If you are still hooking up with women, who cares what they think?

I wouldnt say Im metro-sexual, I dress nice, wear good cologne, workout and clean/cut my own nails, I also whiten my teeth, and take good care of my skin with Acne meds and moisturizer, Im clean shaven too.

Ive met girls who I would constantly grope, kiss, make sexual c/f, and they would ask me "Are you Gay??"

in which I would respond, "Why do you want me to prove to you Im not? Lets go!"

I dont think most girls are serious when they blatently ask you, but they are trying to get a rise out of you. But if they talk between other girls, it either means they think you are gay, or are pissed off that you are salivating over them like the 100+ other guys

Its an easy explanation to satisfy their own ego's, can you imagine the rationale that if a girl rejected you, she was lesbian?

Isnt that easier to accept?
 

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I am like this too. I am constantly asked by girls who i chat up are you gay, sometimes i have to tell them i am bi even though im not just to get them to continue talking to me.
 

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Field report related to the topic.

Last nite at tthe club.
Girl.: your so good looking..you must be gay.
Me: yes I am
Girl: I knew that!..you don't like like a man-pig...like other guys here.
Me: I know I don't...but don't you like all manly looking guys?
Girl: no
Me:..you know,you look so irresistable..I just might switch the team! Would you date me if I was straight?
Girl: Nods with huge smile...
at that point she realised I was straight...and asked me why I was lying to her. I didn't have a good answer..and the HB8 left.
Just something to think about.
 

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Thats exactly what happens to me viking except she doesnt say yes.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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