"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok i'm off!

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this is my progress after reading and discussing DJ stuff:

1. i go up to a girl ... she's looking lost and moving slowly:
me: excuse me, can i take your picture
her: no
me: well, its just a picture
her:why do wanna take my picture? (looking confused)
me:<grin> i wanna show santa what i want for christmas!
her: no..no no no no no ...no

LOL

2. i go up to a girl..she's sitting turning pages of some notebook:
me: hey
her: smiles
me: do i know u?
her: no
me: thats a shame... i'd sure like to
her: umm i'm studying
me: oh k i see..well seeya later

3. i spot a girl(blonde, slightly nerdy, but definitely a 7 for her cute smile heh)
me: do u have the time
she: oh wait...flips open her cellphone tells me the time...6:52 pm
(i have a lecture a 7 heh)
me: oh , there's still time for class...
i sit down next to her in a totally relaxed way..
me: so..how u doin?
her: smiles..good..how bout u
me: good...
then the conversation starts...she is studying psycology...i say i like it...seems interesting ...talk a lil about that...talk about the weather..the university... then its 7 and she says we shud be heading to class now...mine is a diff building...anyway i ask for her email...she asks me if i'm on "facebook" wtf..i say no..i dont even have a pen or paper...but she's like really nice..opens her bag searches for paper...finally i get her email...have mailed her...saying it was a shame that we had to split just when she was starting to look interesting...lol...so we shud continue our conversation sometime, do something together...whatever u feel comfortable with...

and thats it

comments are welcome...will try to keep my progess posted :up:

Well, guess what, i got a reply yea real soon:
Hey,

I was glad to meet you today...but the only problem is, I have a
boyfriend,so I don't think it's such a good idea if we hang out.

Best,
MacKenzie

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So here i go again... on the road again...:rockon:
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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send her an email back saying..."when you get rid of your boyfriend, let me know"
 
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