"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok i'm off!

rsaini

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this is my progress after reading and discussing DJ stuff:

1. i go up to a girl ... she's looking lost and moving slowly:
me: excuse me, can i take your picture
her: no
me: well, its just a picture
her:why do wanna take my picture? (looking confused)
me:<grin> i wanna show santa what i want for christmas!
her: no..no no no no no ...no

LOL

2. i go up to a girl..she's sitting turning pages of some notebook:
me: hey
her: smiles
me: do i know u?
her: no
me: thats a shame... i'd sure like to
her: umm i'm studying
me: oh k i see..well seeya later

3. i spot a girl(blonde, slightly nerdy, but definitely a 7 for her cute smile heh)
me: do u have the time
she: oh wait...flips open her cellphone tells me the time...6:52 pm
(i have a lecture a 7 heh)
me: oh , there's still time for class...
i sit down next to her in a totally relaxed way..
me: so..how u doin?
her: smiles..good..how bout u
me: good...
then the conversation starts...she is studying psycology...i say i like it...seems interesting ...talk a lil about that...talk about the weather..the university... then its 7 and she says we shud be heading to class now...mine is a diff building...anyway i ask for her email...she asks me if i'm on "facebook" wtf..i say no..i dont even have a pen or paper...but she's like really nice..opens her bag searches for paper...finally i get her email...have mailed her...saying it was a shame that we had to split just when she was starting to look interesting...lol...so we shud continue our conversation sometime, do something together...whatever u feel comfortable with...

and thats it

comments are welcome...will try to keep my progess posted :up:

Well, guess what, i got a reply yea real soon:
Hey,

I was glad to meet you today...but the only problem is, I have a
boyfriend,so I don't think it's such a good idea if we hang out.

Best,
MacKenzie

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So here i go again... on the road again...:rockon:
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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send her an email back saying..."when you get rid of your boyfriend, let me know"
 
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