"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ok i'm off!

rsaini

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this is my progress after reading and discussing DJ stuff:

1. i go up to a girl ... she's looking lost and moving slowly:
me: excuse me, can i take your picture
her: no
me: well, its just a picture
her:why do wanna take my picture? (looking confused)
me:<grin> i wanna show santa what i want for christmas!
her: no..no no no no no ...no

LOL

2. i go up to a girl..she's sitting turning pages of some notebook:
me: hey
her: smiles
me: do i know u?
her: no
me: thats a shame... i'd sure like to
her: umm i'm studying
me: oh k i see..well seeya later

3. i spot a girl(blonde, slightly nerdy, but definitely a 7 for her cute smile heh)
me: do u have the time
she: oh wait...flips open her cellphone tells me the time...6:52 pm
(i have a lecture a 7 heh)
me: oh , there's still time for class...
i sit down next to her in a totally relaxed way..
me: so..how u doin?
her: smiles..good..how bout u
me: good...
then the conversation starts...she is studying psycology...i say i like it...seems interesting ...talk a lil about that...talk about the weather..the university... then its 7 and she says we shud be heading to class now...mine is a diff building...anyway i ask for her email...she asks me if i'm on "facebook" wtf..i say no..i dont even have a pen or paper...but she's like really nice..opens her bag searches for paper...finally i get her email...have mailed her...saying it was a shame that we had to split just when she was starting to look interesting...lol...so we shud continue our conversation sometime, do something together...whatever u feel comfortable with...

and thats it

comments are welcome...will try to keep my progess posted :up:

Well, guess what, i got a reply yea real soon:
Hey,

I was glad to meet you today...but the only problem is, I have a
boyfriend,so I don't think it's such a good idea if we hang out.

Best,
MacKenzie

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So here i go again... on the road again...:rockon:
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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send her an email back saying..."when you get rid of your boyfriend, let me know"
 
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