"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok I'm gonna give SS a try. BUT...

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there is no way in hell that I'm (a college student trying to get by) going to spend 300 some odd bucks on learning the $hit. Do you folks think I can learn this stuff by reading the stuff on this site and putting it to use.

p.s I'm gonna read as much as I can and then try to run some kind of pattern on this woman I know later on today. I'm just afraid I may bust out laughing when I say something like Hapenis.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It will work better if you actually HEAR how patterns are run. Much better.

I think it helps to also find out how and why patterns work, so that you aren't just memorizing something, and have no idea why it works.
 

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I learned SS not from Jeffries' course, I read a lot of cheaper books. Spent about 100 bucks.

As I see it now, it would've been easier just to order the package. It focuses on women and you wont have to reinvent the wheel. But now I have quite a lot of funny exciting SS 'learning experiences'.


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A lot of Jefferies audio tapes are avaible on the net. Download some mp3's using iMesh or another peer to peer program and decide if the audios are worth the high prize.

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Chance will probably bite himself in the arse reading this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah I'm not gonna lie ... I'm pretty damn broke (damn high school honors; all study & hardly time for play or workin for money) so I d/led some of this Ross Jeffries stuff to test it out. All I can say is that it is pretty good stuff and that I might start learning how to implement this into my macking. And you know what is ironic and really sad? I heard about this SS stuff before on some page that gave out free NLP patterns and all this other stuff. I tried using it on a friend, and she totally opened up to me, even saying, "I can't believe I'm telling you this but" I should've started learning this a long time ago ... cuz I believe the only weakness I have in my macking lie in my communication skills (both verbally and nonverbally). I think that working on this SS stuff can help me focus on improving that aspect of my DJing. Paz
 

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I may just do that, and what is this 'wheel' your talking about Vronski.

Also chance, it seems like you've picked up on this stuff pretty fast. About how long do you guys think it'll take the average joe to learn this stuff.
 

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and what is this 'wheel' your talking about Vronski.
It means that I've learned NLP the hard way. I was reading manuals for psychiatrists and had to come up with my own patterns.

Eventually I discovered them, but I was quite good already.

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Well, I was reading books for about 3 months in my spare time, then maybe 2 months of outings(maybe 10-15 women) whom I approached before it started working.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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All I know is that I just robbed Ross jeffries clean. I d/l'ed a grip of stuff off of Kazaa last night and listened to one of his audio speeches. When I have time, I'll listen to the rest but it's a lot of listening. I must have stolen about 8-9 audio tapes. It sounds good so far though.
 
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