"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ok i got dumped by text, anyway to salvage this?

cordoncordon

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You are either a troll, or the most needy, clingy, epic fail of a potential bf I have ever seen. How could a girl possibly want to date someone as absolutely afc as you? I can't even begin to tell you how f'd up this all is other than to say if there is a way to NOT attract a girl, you are doing a great job of it!!

Put it this way, just think for a moment if the girl you are all jizzing over saw this thread. How embarrassed would you be? To know this this single girl has you this much in a tither where you are analyzing 50 different ways whether to call, not to call, what to say, when to say it, etc etc? I mean its psycho. You are over the edge my friend. Get a grip.

And as far as this girl is concerned, you have successfully drove her away. For good. Congratulations. Now forget about her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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cordoncordon said:
You are either a troll, or the most needy, clingy, epic fail of a potential bf I have ever seen. How could a girl possibly want to date someone as absolutely afc as you? I can't even begin to tell you how f'd up this all is other than to say if there is a way to NOT attract a girl, you are doing a great job of it!!

Put it this way, just think for a moment if the girl you are all jizzing over saw this thread. How embarrassed would you be? To know this this single girl has you this much in a tither where you are analyzing 50 different ways whether to call, not to call, what to say, when to say it, etc etc? I mean its psycho. You are over the edge my friend. Get a grip.

And as far as this girl is concerned, you have successfully drove her away. For good. Congratulations. Now forget about her.
I took him seriously for a while, because man...who has time to write all that crap just for the sake of trolling?

But god, I'd hate to believe that someone is really this pathetic. Not to mention, he's already been given like 500 solid pieces of advice. How many different ways can he ask the same question?

I think it's time to give him the troll treatment.
 
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