"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok i got dumped by text, anyway to salvage this?

cordoncordon

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You are either a troll, or the most needy, clingy, epic fail of a potential bf I have ever seen. How could a girl possibly want to date someone as absolutely afc as you? I can't even begin to tell you how f'd up this all is other than to say if there is a way to NOT attract a girl, you are doing a great job of it!!

Put it this way, just think for a moment if the girl you are all jizzing over saw this thread. How embarrassed would you be? To know this this single girl has you this much in a tither where you are analyzing 50 different ways whether to call, not to call, what to say, when to say it, etc etc? I mean its psycho. You are over the edge my friend. Get a grip.

And as far as this girl is concerned, you have successfully drove her away. For good. Congratulations. Now forget about her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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cordoncordon said:
You are either a troll, or the most needy, clingy, epic fail of a potential bf I have ever seen. How could a girl possibly want to date someone as absolutely afc as you? I can't even begin to tell you how f'd up this all is other than to say if there is a way to NOT attract a girl, you are doing a great job of it!!

Put it this way, just think for a moment if the girl you are all jizzing over saw this thread. How embarrassed would you be? To know this this single girl has you this much in a tither where you are analyzing 50 different ways whether to call, not to call, what to say, when to say it, etc etc? I mean its psycho. You are over the edge my friend. Get a grip.

And as far as this girl is concerned, you have successfully drove her away. For good. Congratulations. Now forget about her.
I took him seriously for a while, because man...who has time to write all that crap just for the sake of trolling?

But god, I'd hate to believe that someone is really this pathetic. Not to mention, he's already been given like 500 solid pieces of advice. How many different ways can he ask the same question?

I think it's time to give him the troll treatment.
 
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