"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ok I am the BIGGEST idiot ever! Care to help me a little please? email-wise

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Ok search me why I did this, I have no clue whatsoever. Anyways, school is now over for me, except for exams. Yet there was this really hot girl in my class (HB9) with who I was getting along quite well (just started talking to her recently, two classes ago - meaning two weeks ago) and she seems to show some decent interest level. However, for whatever reason, maybe because of the excitement of the class being over (hated this class with a passion) I didn't ask her phone number. Stupid? Yes

Anyways, I know her name/family name, and through my school, we have an email of students and I can easily find her email knowing her name and family name. So I was thinking, how could, or what could I write, in an email, to get her contact information (maybe not her phone number but at least her msn)

Any help? I've never wrote the sort of emails -_-

Just for your information, normal classes are over, all we got left are exams, but I very highly doubt I will see her during the exams, and once they are done, I am never going back to that school again
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Okay, send her an email saying something like:

"Hey BannedGod here! Hows it goin'? I'm haven't studied for the exams yet, trust me to put it off 'til the last moment huh!"... (the exams is just an example I'm sure you have something more interesting which she can relate to to say...

at this point you can take it two ways, 1 being you ask her to write back, simple, OR 2, you can try for her number or something else...
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(assuming you want more form her than a reply) "well, I'm heading off to [location] on [day], and was wonderin' if you'd like to tag along with me, I can't imagine it being much fun on my own! Either way, drop me a line :p"
 
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Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
 
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Luveno I obviously will send the email, I just want to make sure I don't send something stupid that will ruin my chances.

Mr Plow I was thinking in the lines of getting her MSN, then chatting her up 4-5 mins and getting her number to do something (making clear that I am rarely on MSN or wtv). Wouldn't that work through an email? Just to ask her for her msn?
 
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The fact you are thinking about sending something stupid means you are pedestaling her.

Sometimes, when I'm internet dating on myspace, I send the following email:

aoueghotauegta'luhyr973y927ythrouia




Seriously, it gets their attention and its worked for me more often than not.

It doesn't matter what you write. If the interest is there she'll respond.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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BannedGod said:
Luveno I obviously will send the email, I just want to make sure I don't send something stupid that will ruin my chances.

Mr Plow I was thinking in the lines of getting her MSN, then chatting her up 4-5 mins and getting her number to do something (making clear that I am rarely on MSN or wtv). Wouldn't that work through an email? Just to ask her for her msn?
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Don't use MSN, or at least that is what I've learnt. But feel free to try it out :)
 
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Very good point Luveno

First problem solved

Second problem: Should I invit her somewhere straight away, phone number or MSN? I'm guessing MSN is a bad idea?

(sorry never did this kind of stuff so I'm at a loss)
 
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Actually i would ask for her msn i think asking her out right now as u dont really know her much would kinda creep her out.

Ask for her msn talk to her a bit and then do the "im going to xxx would u like to tag along? or ask for her number.
 
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3 doors down?
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Absolutely not!

Three Doors Down are pruno for the ears.

It's just an old saying my Grandma used to tell me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chase12 said:
Actually i would ask for her msn i think asking her out right now as u dont really know her much would kinda creep her out.

Ask for her msn talk to her a bit and then do the "im going to xxx would u like to tag along? or ask for her number.
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Well apparently he's already kinda hit it off with her so I'm sure she'd be glad if he asked her out or whatever...
 
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