"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ok I am the BIGGEST idiot ever! Care to help me a little please? email-wise

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Ok search me why I did this, I have no clue whatsoever. Anyways, school is now over for me, except for exams. Yet there was this really hot girl in my class (HB9) with who I was getting along quite well (just started talking to her recently, two classes ago - meaning two weeks ago) and she seems to show some decent interest level. However, for whatever reason, maybe because of the excitement of the class being over (hated this class with a passion) I didn't ask her phone number. Stupid? Yes

Anyways, I know her name/family name, and through my school, we have an email of students and I can easily find her email knowing her name and family name. So I was thinking, how could, or what could I write, in an email, to get her contact information (maybe not her phone number but at least her msn)

Any help? I've never wrote the sort of emails -_-

Just for your information, normal classes are over, all we got left are exams, but I very highly doubt I will see her during the exams, and once they are done, I am never going back to that school again
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Okay, send her an email saying something like:

"Hey BannedGod here! Hows it goin'? I'm haven't studied for the exams yet, trust me to put it off 'til the last moment huh!"... (the exams is just an example I'm sure you have something more interesting which she can relate to to say...

at this point you can take it two ways, 1 being you ask her to write back, simple, OR 2, you can try for her number or something else...
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(assuming you want more form her than a reply) "well, I'm heading off to [location] on [day], and was wonderin' if you'd like to tag along with me, I can't imagine it being much fun on my own! Either way, drop me a line :p"
 
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Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
 
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Luveno I obviously will send the email, I just want to make sure I don't send something stupid that will ruin my chances.

Mr Plow I was thinking in the lines of getting her MSN, then chatting her up 4-5 mins and getting her number to do something (making clear that I am rarely on MSN or wtv). Wouldn't that work through an email? Just to ask her for her msn?
 
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The fact you are thinking about sending something stupid means you are pedestaling her.

Sometimes, when I'm internet dating on myspace, I send the following email:

aoueghotauegta'luhyr973y927ythrouia




Seriously, it gets their attention and its worked for me more often than not.

It doesn't matter what you write. If the interest is there she'll respond.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BannedGod said:
Luveno I obviously will send the email, I just want to make sure I don't send something stupid that will ruin my chances.

Mr Plow I was thinking in the lines of getting her MSN, then chatting her up 4-5 mins and getting her number to do something (making clear that I am rarely on MSN or wtv). Wouldn't that work through an email? Just to ask her for her msn?
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Don't use MSN, or at least that is what I've learnt. But feel free to try it out :)
 
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Very good point Luveno

First problem solved

Second problem: Should I invit her somewhere straight away, phone number or MSN? I'm guessing MSN is a bad idea?

(sorry never did this kind of stuff so I'm at a loss)
 
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Actually i would ask for her msn i think asking her out right now as u dont really know her much would kinda creep her out.

Ask for her msn talk to her a bit and then do the "im going to xxx would u like to tag along? or ask for her number.
 
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3 doors down?
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Absolutely not!

Three Doors Down are pruno for the ears.

It's just an old saying my Grandma used to tell me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chase12 said:
Actually i would ask for her msn i think asking her out right now as u dont really know her much would kinda creep her out.

Ask for her msn talk to her a bit and then do the "im going to xxx would u like to tag along? or ask for her number.
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Well apparently he's already kinda hit it off with her so I'm sure she'd be glad if he asked her out or whatever...
 
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