"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok I am the BIGGEST idiot ever! Care to help me a little please? email-wise

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Ok search me why I did this, I have no clue whatsoever. Anyways, school is now over for me, except for exams. Yet there was this really hot girl in my class (HB9) with who I was getting along quite well (just started talking to her recently, two classes ago - meaning two weeks ago) and she seems to show some decent interest level. However, for whatever reason, maybe because of the excitement of the class being over (hated this class with a passion) I didn't ask her phone number. Stupid? Yes

Anyways, I know her name/family name, and through my school, we have an email of students and I can easily find her email knowing her name and family name. So I was thinking, how could, or what could I write, in an email, to get her contact information (maybe not her phone number but at least her msn)

Any help? I've never wrote the sort of emails -_-

Just for your information, normal classes are over, all we got left are exams, but I very highly doubt I will see her during the exams, and once they are done, I am never going back to that school again
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Okay, send her an email saying something like:

"Hey BannedGod here! Hows it goin'? I'm haven't studied for the exams yet, trust me to put it off 'til the last moment huh!"... (the exams is just an example I'm sure you have something more interesting which she can relate to to say...

at this point you can take it two ways, 1 being you ask her to write back, simple, OR 2, you can try for her number or something else...
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(assuming you want more form her than a reply) "well, I'm heading off to [location] on [day], and was wonderin' if you'd like to tag along with me, I can't imagine it being much fun on my own! Either way, drop me a line :p"
 
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Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
 
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Luveno I obviously will send the email, I just want to make sure I don't send something stupid that will ruin my chances.

Mr Plow I was thinking in the lines of getting her MSN, then chatting her up 4-5 mins and getting her number to do something (making clear that I am rarely on MSN or wtv). Wouldn't that work through an email? Just to ask her for her msn?
 
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The fact you are thinking about sending something stupid means you are pedestaling her.

Sometimes, when I'm internet dating on myspace, I send the following email:

aoueghotauegta'luhyr973y927ythrouia




Seriously, it gets their attention and its worked for me more often than not.

It doesn't matter what you write. If the interest is there she'll respond.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BannedGod said:
Luveno I obviously will send the email, I just want to make sure I don't send something stupid that will ruin my chances.

Mr Plow I was thinking in the lines of getting her MSN, then chatting her up 4-5 mins and getting her number to do something (making clear that I am rarely on MSN or wtv). Wouldn't that work through an email? Just to ask her for her msn?
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Don't use MSN, or at least that is what I've learnt. But feel free to try it out :)
 
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Very good point Luveno

First problem solved

Second problem: Should I invit her somewhere straight away, phone number or MSN? I'm guessing MSN is a bad idea?

(sorry never did this kind of stuff so I'm at a loss)
 
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Actually i would ask for her msn i think asking her out right now as u dont really know her much would kinda creep her out.

Ask for her msn talk to her a bit and then do the "im going to xxx would u like to tag along? or ask for her number.
 
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3 doors down?
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Absolutely not!

Three Doors Down are pruno for the ears.

It's just an old saying my Grandma used to tell me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Chase12 said:
Actually i would ask for her msn i think asking her out right now as u dont really know her much would kinda creep her out.

Ask for her msn talk to her a bit and then do the "im going to xxx would u like to tag along? or ask for her number.
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Well apparently he's already kinda hit it off with her so I'm sure she'd be glad if he asked her out or whatever...
 
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